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Why I Prioritize Exercise Over Cleaning

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People often ask me how the heck I fit exercise into my schedule. I have two children, aged 2 and 4. I have two part-time jobs, one as a Pilates trainer and the other as a freelance writer. I do not employ a babysitter or nanny. Like everyone else, I am busy. It is not that badge-on-my-sleeve-look-what-I-can-accomplish kind of busy. It is the exhausted kind. The kind that really would benefit from one less activity, one less responsibility, a little less stress. Nevertheless, a schedule devoid of free time is my reality, just as it is a difficult reality for many, many, people.

So how do I do it? Simple: I prioritize exercise over cleaning my house.

Here's my thinking: my house will never be clean or orderly enough, and trying to make it so is a huge time sink. I could spend hours picking up toys, making beds, washing clothes, washing dishes, sweeping the kitchen floor, dusting, and vacuuming the carpet. The list goes on and on. It never goes away. Just as soon as one task is marked off the list, two more get added. When it comes to cleaning, there is always something.

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So I exercise first, because if I were to begin my day by trying to attack the cleaning and straightening of my house, I would get absolutely nothing else accomplished, ever. My house would surely look better, but what is the real gain over the years? To me, the exercise produces a better benefit: it keeps me healthier, it alleviates stress, it keeps my weight in check, and it makes me feel better. These things allow me to be a better wife and a better mother. These things give me the energy to train clients and write articles,.

Certainly a clean house is important. I devote some time to cleaning and straightening every day. But I do this after I have exercised. Yes, this drives my husband crazy from time to time. It drives me crazy from time to time. But I know my priorities, and the cleaning will eventually get done, and if it really gets bad, I just may get my husband and kids to help me out a bit.

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Shalilah 5 pts

Thank you so much. I have gotten out of the habit of exercising and sometimes neglect my appearance doing the day because of washing and cleaning.I don't even have any children at home but seem to have washing everyday and the cleaning never stops.
I'm stopping now and freshen myself up maybe by some miracl I'll esercise.

hjmart 5 pts

The list "never goes away"! WOW! How true! I noticed that too and was thinking about how to change my priorities. It's so difficult to do everything.... I do need to exercise, but don't have enough time for it... exercising at home is very difficult (too with many destructions) .... But thank you so very much for writing about this subject!

kicki242 5 pts

I find that the house just gets messy after a few hours anyway. When I exercise, I find my mind stays less messy for a much longer time :)

sleepymama 5 pts

"if I were to begin my day by trying to attack the cleaning and straightening of my house, I would get absolutely nothing else accomplished, ever."

THANK YOU for pointing out the obvious--I never thought of it this way. I waste a lot of time cleaning and straightening, and my house is still always a mess. Wednesday morning with both kids happily ensconced at their respective camps, I'll put exercise ahead of cleaning/chores.

Mallory Baltimore 5 pts

I'm 100% behind you. My favorite cleaning phrase is "The floor gets mopped a little bit at a time", meaning when I spill something, I get a paper towel and clean that part of the floor! I figure dusting once every month or two is good enough. We have 3 dogs that live inside and the hair and dust will NEVER go away. I could dust and vacuum every day, and it probably would not look much different - hence I skip that monumental waste of my time. I work 50-60 hours a week already - I need stress busters, not stress makers. So I take the pressure off on cleaning the house, and like my new best friend, Christine, I exercise - hop on the treadmill or do yoga. So relaxing!

miguelina 5 pts

The only way I get a run in is if I do it before the husband and kids are awake. Otherwise, forget it!

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

I think you should put the most important first. Which is why I have it built into my schedule every day.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

pilatesbodynyc 5 pts

Cleaning a toilet or exercise...perhaps given that as a choice we could get more people exercising. Oh by the way in case you didn't guess I picked Exercise!

midnightbliss 5 pts

i agree that no matter how much we have to do, we should always have time for ourselves to perform better with our responsibilities.

Candelaria Silva 5 pts

Keeping yourself fit actually helps you do the rest of your life better. Walking - my exercise of choice now - also keeps my worries at bay. When my children were young, I got up at 5a.m. and did a step tape, then got ready, then got them up. My house was always neat if not always pristine clean. Remember the line spoken by Jack Nicholson's character in the Witches of Eastiwick - you wash dishes today, you'll just have to wash them tomorrow. (Or something like that)

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TheSweetest 5 pts

I always wake up before my son and husband- to exercise. I have done it that way for years. I perform best first thing in the morning, and if I don't do it then, I won't.

missbritt 5 pts

And when it comes down to it, a healthy body is way more important to me than a spotless house. Especially since, as you pointed out, the spotless house is an impossible mission!

Miss Britt

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JennaHatfield 10 pts

If I don't schedule it, I won't exercise. That's precisely why I didn't exercise at all this week. Sigh. Thanks for the reminder.

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Lagunatic 5 pts

It's a woman's duty to hire a cleaning person to scrub her home once a month. More if she can afford it.

I call it a sanity tax. It's a tax I'm more than happy to pay.

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cbharmon 5 pts

As you say, the personal high one gets from exercise lasts longer and fills you with energy that enable you to engage in other, more important activities.

Step away from the toilet, ladies. You can clean it tomorrow, or the next day.

Christine blogs ( http://www.bodyacumenllc.com/ ) and tweets ( http://twitter.com/cbharmon ) about healthy and beauty, all the time.

KGav 5 pts

My house is almost always a mess. And on the rare event that it's clean, it stays that way for less than 2 hours. Maybe.

The rewards and personal high I get from exercise lasts a lot longer and is a lot more satisfying. Thank you for writing this - I feel so much better knowing I'm not alone in this choice and that it's not a "bad" choice to make.

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