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Extreme Couponing One Year Later

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On January 18,2011, I saw a post by Family Frugal about Mr Coupon and his appearance on TLC's Extreme Couponing special. This piqued my interest, and I started exploring the world of coupon bloggers. After a week of digging around in their part of the blogosphere, I had a brilliant idea -- I would become an extreme couponer and I'd blog about it! I was picturing a funny series of three or four posts, most of which would be rambling funny pieces about not being able to manage a complete grocery shopping trip (20 minutes in a grocery store and I was ready to ditch the cart and leave) or public arguments between me and my partner about stockpiling. I was going for humor. Or I thought I was.

Turns out extreme couponing is interesting. It also turns out extreme couponers are interesting and very friendly. Before I knew what had happened, I was nodding my head and saying things like, "This is so easy, why doesn't everyone shop this way?" and BAM! -- I was an extreme couponer.

I wrote my first extreme couponing post on February 3, 2011 -- a year later, I'm still an extreme couponer but it doesn't feel extreme, it feels normal. Going to a grocery store without a list, without a deal in mind, or without coupons is WEIRD, and we don't do it any more, but that's not the only thing that's changed.

When I started, I swore I would not become a stockpiler! I was the one who freaked out if my partner put three cans of tomatoes in the cart when we already had two cans at home. Today, I not only have a stockpile -- I have a stockpile room with a special can dispenser (OK two special can dispensers) to help keep my cans organized. The stockpile has grown so much that we've had to reorganize it three times in order to stay organized.

Because we have a stockpile, we rarely run out of anything -- and we rarely have to pay full price for things we use regularly. We also don't have to worry as much about skyrocketing prices for things like peanut butter. (How much are you paying right now? I have a stockpile of 12 jars of peanut butter, and I didn't pay more than .75 for any of them. Yay stockpiling!)

Besides my initial fear of the stockpile, organizing coupons was the biggest problem I faced. I started out clipping most of my coupons and putting them into little pouches in my coupon binder. That got old faster than I'd like to admit and today, my binder is pretty empty. I just don't need it.

I've moved to two expandable file folders for my coupon inserts and a manilla folder for the uncut printables. I'm using plastic envelopes labeled with the store names on them (and have a couple for free products and coupons for trial-sized products, too) and another catch-all for coupons I've clipped/found at stores but haven't used yet. This is working really well and saves time -- I don't worry about my messy coupon binder any more!

Because I'm not using a binder, I am not dragging my binder around to stores for those just-in-case moments. This does mean that I've missed out on a few potential deals, but my stockpile is such that I don't have to catch every deal anyway. I've learned that another deal always comes along, so if I miss one -- it's really OK.

Some of you may remember that I watched every episode of the first season of TLC's Extreme Couponing (and live Chattered/Tweeted them) -- I'm glad I watched those episodes. There are two huge lessons to be learned from those shows. First, the simple one - nobody really needs to buy 100 bottles of water or 100 individual candy bars unless they're trying to make a splash for TV. Second, and most important, coupon fraud hurts everyone.

I obviously knew that decoding coupons and coupon fraud were illegal and that stores and brands lose money when dishonest people do these things. But, I hadn't really stopped to think about how coupon fraud can affect those of us who use coupons properly until I watched a few episodes of Extreme Couponing.

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Shells8 5 pts

Check out Christi The Coupon Coach - Couponing Made Simple on Amazon. The book really does make it simple to be successful with a step-by-step plan. It is not extreme, but real couponing for real people. I just buy a reasonable amount (6 to 8) of items that our family will really use when they are rock bottom price. I typically save 80% off groceries using these steps in very little time - really! Probably 3 hours every two weeks including the time in the store. I save big time and I still have a life - lol. It can more than pay for the book in one trip!

OutrageousFortune 7 pts

Congratulations!

I coupon a little bit, but I still don't see that it makes that big a difference in my bottom line. The coupons I see are for name-brands that are more expensive than store brands anyway or for things I don't need or amounts I don't need (12 jars of 75-cent peanut butter is $9....)

So, my question is: How much did you really save with all that work? Have you looked through your budget for the year before you started coupling and compared it or is it just a visceral sense that you're saving money?

texasebeth 75 pts

OutrageousFortune

I find I save the most on things like TP, dish soap, laundry detergent, etc. I don't spend much time on it and neither does Denise, at least not now. While I was trying to figure out what system worked for me I spent maybe an hour or two on it a week.

As for stockpiling, I don't have a big stockpile year round. I save for summer. I work less hours since our son is out of school and by buying during the year stuff like shampoo, razors, etc. I spend less in the summer when we have less money.

I do find I save more overall even on foodstuff because I am matching a sale with a coupon. For example HEB had frozen steamer veggies on sale for $1.25 (usually over $2)per bag. I had a $1.00 off coupon for that item. I normally wouldn't have bought it at over $2 per bag but for 25 cents, sure thing! I know we will use it.

I do not buy stuff JUST because I have a coupon or it's a good price. I will splurge occasionally on items I normally can't afford because it's on sale and I have a coupon.

Denise 936 pts moderator

OutrageousFortune I said no more than .75 a piece, some of them were actually free...

But let's say they all cost .75. You're right, that's $9. But we easily use a jar of peanut butter a month and the cheapest peanut butter we can find is currently $1.75 - So that would be... $21 for a store brand peanut butter that nobody loves instead of $9 for a name brand that nobody will sigh over, complain about, or even gently mention that they prefer X brand.

That's how it helps my bottom line.

dvorakoelling 9 pts

I'm a little behind on the whole extreme couponing craze, but totally fascinated by it. My mom was a crazy couponer back in the early 80ths (before it was cool?) and I think I've been afraid of starting down the same path, cause it sure seems addictive and kind of time consuming... These days it's hard NOT to want to try it , with all the money to be saved (and all the basement space we have just waiting to be filled :)...Thanks for posting and showing those of us who are curious just what's involved!

Denise 936 pts moderator

dvorakoelling I think it was probably super time consuming back before blogging was around. Now, the coupon bloggers literally do the work for you. All you have to do is grab the printable coupons you'll use, clip the coupons from the paper when you're ready to use them and create your list based on couponers' lists of what the best buys are right now.

Yes, it does take a little more time than if I just went into the store with a list like I used to do -- but it's not more than an hour a week for me to get lists/coupons together. (Unless there's a super special sale going on - then it can take a little while to figure out multiple transactions, but that doesn't happen too often.)

KarenLynnn 1005 pts

Denise, if you do end up with a stockpile of things that you can't use, the local food banks would love them. I've been told they are looking for things non food like deodorant, soap and shampoo, toothpaste etc and the days our local food bank is open, that shelf is usually empty. I've taken your lead and now our friend Ed brings the coupon section from the paper for me every sunday. i don't always clip, but if there is something i need or use that has a coupon, i clip it. remembering to bring them to the store, well i am as good at that as i am remembering to bring the reusable grocery sacks out of the trunk when i go shopping. I am inspired by you! Great job!

Denise 936 pts moderator

KarenLynnn We make regular donations of all sorts of things throughout the year (which is why I don't have a toothpaste room and only have a toothpaste drawer lol.)

KarenLynnn 1005 pts

Denise you guys are all kinds of awesome :)

jax123 5 pts

My dil and I have tore Tyler, Texas up today looking for food can dispensing racks! We both want/need them badly. Any thoughts on where we can get some...without breaking the bank. Oh, I do live @ 35 miles east of Dallas, but the traffic is OMG. I so appreciate whatever you can tell me, thank you, Elaine

Denise 936 pts moderator

jax123 Mine were ordered online here: http://www.shelfreliance.com/ (I have two of the "Pantry" sized sets. I need two more, lol.)

texasebeth 75 pts

Denisejax123

I went to the website and it won't bring up any page except the home page, no matter what I click on.

Denise 936 pts moderator

texasebeth That's so weird! The links all work for me. Does this one work? http://www.shelfreliance.com/food-rotation-systems

texasebeth 75 pts

Denise

nope, same thing. Just keeps showing the home page. I even typed in the link you posted manually and it defaulted back to the home page. I'm going try opening the website up in Safari instead of IE. Maybe that is the problem?

texasebeth 75 pts

Denise

It worked in Safari browser. I think I am going to order some of those.

isthisthemiddle 1090 pts

My husband is threatening to start extreme couponing. I told him to go for it! I'll share your resources and ideas with him, so thanks, Denise.

Denise 936 pts moderator

isthisthemiddle Nifty. You tell him to buzz me if he has questions or needs a blog specific to your area. :-)

Miss_Mommy 5 pts

I have to go back and read more of your blog - I have been getting more and more into couponing to help stretch our food budget.

Denise 936 pts moderator

Miss_Mommy Cool! That's the second part of the reason why I started - a surprise loss of income and we needed to do a lot of dollar stretching.

Christine Carlisle 12 pts

I am so impressed. If I remember to bring one coupon to the grocery store, I'm having a good day. Well done, you!

Denise 936 pts moderator

Christine Carlisle I used to be that way. Or I'd leave them in the car and be too lazy to go in and get them.

WeUseCoupons 5 pts

Denise, I'm so so happy you are still couponing!!! I'm the Mr behind the Coupon! Heather from Family Friendly Frugality is excellent and did a great job with the article!! LOVED this article, you are so right! Kudos to you for getting the word out!

Nathan - WeUseCoupons.com

Denise 936 pts moderator

WeUseCoupons LOL Hey Nathan, loved you on TLC's Extreme Couponing - your toothpaste room was fabulous, I just have a toothpaste drawer lol.

I do visit your forums quite often too. Particularly when some really hot deal is in the works and I'm looking for alternative ideas. Or, when I'm traveling and thinking about couponing -- I will wander around your forums looking for info about coupon ops in the area I'm visiting.

Thanks for stopping buy!

Denise

BlogHer Community Manager

taluscat 5 pts

I don't do couponing because I don't buy any packaged processed crap. Stop buying 80 cans of spaghetti-os. I'd rather eat garbage...and apparently you would too.

Denise 936 pts moderator

taluscat We do indeed buy packaged process food, though I don't personally eat spaghetti-os, those would be my college student daughter who often comes home after work hungry and looking for something super fast and easy. Those work for her and when she's living here, we do buy them for her -- probably a dozen cans a year.

We don't ONLY buy packaged processed food though. :-)

Denise

BlogHer.com Community Manager

texasebeth 75 pts

taluscat

The majority of my coupons, to be honest, go towards things like deo, shampoo, tp, etc. I do buy packaged processed food occasionally although my husband is a Beefaroni fan versus spaghetti-os.

With our family's lifestyle sometimes packaged processed food is the easiest quickest thing on certain nights. We don't eat it daily by any means and it is most certainly not the only food items we buy with coupons.

Denise 936 pts moderator

texasebeth LOL I thought of you and R. when I took that photo. I think there's a can of beefaroni there, lol.

Nope, we don't eat it every night nor is it the only thing we use coupons for - some folks aren't interested, and that's ok with me. More coupons for me. ;-)

AllThoseThingsILove 5 pts

taluscat Then don't coupon for food. There are tons of great deals out there for household and personal care products that will certainly help cut down any budget!

Simply Heidi 10 pts

taluscat

That's is my biggest issue about couponing as well, though I don't think I would have said it in quite the same way.

I'm one of those real-food, make your own deodorant people. However, I am aware that not everyone is weird in the same way that I am weird. If couponing works for Denise and her family, good for them.

If nothing else, it inspires me to at least look for sales on my baking soda, kale, coconut oil, sucanat and raw apple-cider vinegar.

Denise 936 pts moderator

Simply Heidi And you can indeed find coupons for baking soda -- and some pretty good deals on it from time to time.

I also saw a nice deal on coconut oil recently. :-)

Simply Heidi 10 pts

Denise Good to know. I'll keep my eyes open. :)

LizaWasHere 9 pts

taluscat Why do you feel the need to call someone else's food garbage? If you are hoping to persuade someone that eating processed food is an unhealthy choice, do you think they're more likely to listen if you begin the conversation by accusing them of wanting to eat garbage, or if you approach it in a less judgmental way?

texasebeth 75 pts

I really need to get back on track couponing! I need to stockpile stuff. I have a binder but just can't seem to get myself into using it. I like your plastic envelope idea alot. That might work better for me. Office Depot has some for 99 cents - envelope and 8.5x11 sizes.

Denise 936 pts moderator

texasebeth We got the first package or two of those envelopes at one of the BlogHer conferences a couple of years ago and mostly ignored them. We got another package at BlogHer 11 and TW pointed out to me that they might be coupon useful (and then I saw couponers who had been at BlogHer 11 using them.) Lightbulb went off in my head. :-)

I do still use the binder, just not nearly as much as in the early days and I don't spend a lot of time filling it up or cleaning it out. :-)

HomeRearedChef 1661 pts

I just LOVE how organized you are, Denise, but, of course, after 1 year of doing extreme couponing you've got it pretty much figured out. :)

Denise 936 pts moderator

HomeRearedChef You should see my messy desk right now. Coupons everywhere! I only pretend to be organized. Or think I'm organized. Or am organized when I'm about to write a blog post about coupons. Heh.

HomeRearedChef 1661 pts

Denise Too funny! For example, I can tell you that my kitchen is usually very clean and organized (not right after a dinner party, of course), but my clothes in my room usually are not. There! I've confessed publicly. :)

isthisthemiddle 1090 pts

HomeRearedChefDenise We all have our priorities! :) Right now both my kitchen (baked bread) and my clothes (washing needs doing) are in a wreck.

DesiValentine4 451 pts

We're not extreme couponers, but I'm grateful for the shift the couponing movement has brought about for the rest of us. About a year ago, at least where I live, using coupons was something you did if you were struggling to make ends meet. Full stop. And so there was a stigma attached to that, and I know of some people who were really embarrassed about bringing their coupons out in busy lineups. Now it's just something every body does, AND some of the major retailers and points programs are responding with more big coupons and big deal days. How awesome is that?!

Denise 936 pts moderator

DesiValentine4 YES! I love this point you've just made.

I think we're also seeing more coupons for organic, less-processed foods -- something that was pretty much non-existent a couple of years ago.

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drrubidium That may be the case with some couponers, but I don't think of her as a hoarder. She's pretty smart about stocking up. -Momo

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