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Post your bra color = raise awareness for breast cancer?
Post a sexually suggestive status about where you leave your purse = raise awareness for breast cancer??

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Post your bra color = raise awareness for breast cancer?
Post a sexually suggestive status about where you leave your purse = raise awareness for breast cancer??

I was so confused when I saw these FB statuses...did nothing to help awareness of breast cancer in my opinion!
BTW, September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. The poor children suffering from cancer get ignored because everyone skips ahead a month and goes pink in September instead of gold for the kids. I'm grateful for the job those who raise money and awareness have done for breast cancer. I have breast cancer survivors whom I love and am grateful for. But let's not forget the kids. They need a cure too.
I CAN'T STAND those ridiculous 'awareness' Facebook statuses. All it did was confuse the crap out of me until I stumbled upon a blogger who posted about it saying it was ridiculous. So not only is it excluding men who also can get breast cancer, it's confusing fellow women who apparently are supposed to knoe what the status means!
:::applauds wildly::: I recommend people do some research about "breast cancer awareness." Many of these companies with pink ribbons on the box are donating pennies and people think they are helping. Breast cancer awareness has now become a joke and the disease is no joking matter.
someone had to explain to me this latest pg one had anything to do with breast cancer awareness. I totally don't get it. In general I think putting one's money and time toward organizations, hospitals, and researchers fighting diseases is a much better use of one's time. I really don't get the status things...
Actually, I am a survivor and am also guilty of posting these games via facebook. It's amazing how we only see what we want to see - in this case.... the words 'breast cancer awareness' and don't use our intelligence with the rest!
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES!
Hear, hear! This survivor thanks you for keeping it real...
Amen!!
I couldn't agree more. These FB status things are RIDICULOUS and need to cease immediately.
Awareness as opposed to education.....people have to have an interest and the "I don't want to talk or think about depressing stuff, you must be manic depressive" attitude is about people who have personal problems. Sometimes it is just a lack of maturity,
As a breast cancer survivor, I also find it offensive.
jillicious Thank you!
However, awareness is easier then education. Education means reading, and spending time getting to know statistics, and finding the right organization (if you choose) to support. It means WORK. Posting a random, nonsensical status is hardly awareness, but it does nothing to further any education in regard to breast cancer.
Thank you. As a breast cancer survivor, I find the whole thing kind of offensive.
I was wondering why all of facebbok was claiming to be so many weeks and craving something or other. Wow that is a really dumb game. Not only that but i have a few friends that cannot concive and have gotten upset seeing so many people with these status'. def not a good idea.
Do I think the posts are obscure, ridiculous even? Absolutely. However, I do feel as though whether a direct fundraising attempt is made or not is irrelevent. Rather, these posts on Facebook and the like allow people, even teenagers, to think twice about breast cancer, to atleast, if nothing else, have some awareness of this, and perhaps go further in becoming aware. Myself, I had to inquire about these posts, as I had no clue as to what they were about. In finding they were about breast cancer, it made me think; it made me think of loved ones I know who have both survived, and passed from breast cancer, as well as other cancers, and how I should put more of my own efforts into supporting causes. Isn't that the point? To put this in the thoughts of others? I think it is working.
kimdeg33 But how does it do that, when the actual meme indicates that you should not tell anyone what you are doing? Why are we excluding men? Why can't we send a meme out that says something about breast cancer? Why doesn't have to be some random status, that has nothing to do with any kind of cancer, and in this case is mildly offensive?
DanielleBarnsley I never found these offensive but there certainly are people who are rightly sensitive to many things. I do think that these "nudge nudge, wink wink" reminders are a great way for women to remind their friends--do your self exams, get your mammograms. I *did* explain the post to my husband who promptly asked me, "When's the last time *you* did a self-exam?"
What's your take on the "I 'heart' boobies" awareness bracelets that all the teenagers in my town seem to be wearing?
Well, a tweet to #StopChildAbuse doesn't do anything to actually stop child abuse. Twibbons don't change a thing in the world. Signing a petition doesn't free Americans from Iranian prisons. Putting a yellow ribbon on your car doesn't do much for the troops. Friendship or care isn't really determined by who C&P's a Facebook status. Showing your boobs on twitter doesn't do a thing for breast cancer. Why do we come up with all these odd and ultimately meaningless ways to show our support for something? Likely because in some way we feel powerless to truly effect change.
Jane Devin It's true. I also think, to a degree, that most people want to appear as though they are caring toward this cause or that. It takes effort to actually be an activist for any cause or change. I think this sort of stuff allows people to say, "I bought a ribbon, I helped", when in reality it does very little for the actual education of the cause.
in some cases, these go beyond silly and unhelpful, and becomes downright hurtful - particularly the pregnancy one. my breast cancer was found soon after my baby was born, but many of my friends lost their fertility to their cancer treatment. They would be wonderful mothers and long for a baby. Also, adoption becomes particularly difficult if you've already had cancer. Please don't mock them.
Judy Schwartz Haley It does feel like mockery, doesn't it? I've never participated in any of the meme's and never could quite figure out why. Thanks for the comment!
I have always found these things annoying and haven't participated, but it hadn't occurred to me that they might be offensive until I felt offended by this most recent (pregnancy) one. My husband and I have one living child and another who passed away shortly after birth a few months ago. We also suffer from infertility and have spent most of our 10 years of marriage trying to conceive. So when this new meme started circulating, it did bother me. It bothered me for myself because I felt like it makes light of something that is not a light subject for me. But only after reading this did it occur to me that all these "awareness" posts could actually be offensive to those who have been affected by breast cancer. Why should we make light of that?! If there was a silly meme going around "raising awareness" of infertility or child loss, I don't imagine I would find that very helpful! I would probably feel like people don't understand the heartbreak and the seriousness of it all. I don't think I am usually very easy to offend, and I try to brush things off most of the time, but this is very bothersome to me. Judy Schwartz Haley
Sneetch i am so sorry for your loss. I think you make a great point here.
Sneetch yeah, this is not just about breast cancer. these silly status updates do not actually provide any education on any of these issues, and in many cases, they actually trivialize the issue. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for speaking up.
Ditto...
Agreed! I've been seeing all sorts of talk about this the past few days. It's ridiculous.
Thank you. :)
JennaHatfield No, no, thank you :)
I'm so out of the loop. I never knew what those wacky status updates were supposed to mean!