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Earlier this month, Common Sense Media, a non-profit that focuses on children, media and entertainment, released its list of the 10 best and worst media innovations of the past decade (hat tip The Core Knowledge Blog).

Among the best: Google, Facebook, Wii and Wikipedia. Among the worst: digital cheating, Gossip Girl, Webkinz and texting while driving.

I'm pretty sure most of my fellow "digital parents" would agree with their underlying argument that digital technology has fundamentally changed childhood, and that in turn has changed the way we must parent.

Think about it. When we were 15, our parents worried about us sneaking into R-rated movies. Today, teens can find them (and worse) on the 'net with a couple clicks. Our parents worried about how much time we spent on the phone, not whether we were getting sext-messages on our cell phones.

No question, our challenges are far different than those our parents faced, and technology has definitely changed both our parenting and our lives. 

Next week, I will be on two panels at the Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas talking about these very issues.

The first, Mommy Power 101, is part of the MommyTech Summit at CES. Moderated by Beth Blecherman of TechMamas.com, the panel will talk about how technology advancements have empowered moms and changed our lives. If you'll be at CES, we are on at 9:30 am PST on Friday the 8th.

The second, Help, My Mom Friended Me on Facebook, is part of Kodak's in-booth television studio and will stream live over the Internet (January 8, 11 am PST). The panel, which also includes Jill Zarin from Real Housewives of NYC, will be talking digital parenting and the impact of technology on our children and our families.

I can't bring you with me to Las Vegas, but I'd like to bring your perspective. If you've got anything you'd like to say on either topic, please leave a comment here. I'll print the thread before I leave on the 7th.

Next month, I'll have a full report on the show and all the electronic gadgets that will be consuming our lives in the coming year.

 

Susan Getgood is a marketing and social media consultant. She blogs professionally at Marketing Roadmaps and also writes a personal blog Snapshot Chronicles and a family travel blog Snapshot Chronicles Roadtrip. She is a co-founder of BlogwithIntegrity.com, and recently started work on her first book.

How has technology impacted you and your family? Tell us in the Family Connections Group.

 

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virtualschoolmom 5 pts

I see technology as anything else...everything in moderation & we are still the parents in control of what we expose our children to & what we teach them about it.  There will always be new technology & advancements in everything we see, do, touch, learn, eat, etc.. 

It is how we as parents respond to it that translates into how our children handle it.  I have a 20-year-old in college & a 9-year-old that I've just begun Virtual Schooling from home; so I have been there, done that, bought the t-shirt...now am on the journey there again, only differently...more advanced...LOL.

But it will be interesting to see what you see at your conference regarding the future of Virtual Schooling (K-12 online education).  My daughter and I have embarked on a new journey with Virtual Schooling from home & are LOVING IT!  We've started a blog about it, we're loving it so much.

Have a fabulous time!

Jo Anna virtualschoolmom  http://ourvirtualschooljourney.blogspot.com/

Beverly Flaxington 5 pts

Maybe it's silly to worry about -- but are our children destined for a life of carpal tunnel syndrome? I mean IMing and Texting all day long cannot be good for one's fingers. But, more importantly -- it's the loss of social etiquette. I was at a museum with my 13 year old, 11 year old and their two cousins (14 and 12). ALL four of these kids were texting OTHER kids while they were together. At dinner I had to insist they put the phones away -- in a restaurant!! I'm also worried that my children won't know what it is like to have "quiet time" -- to take a walk and listen to birds sing, or just to sit and connect with a Higher Power. They are growing up in a world of constant connection -- which means so much loss of self and ability to have time to just ponder.

Beverly Flaxington

Blog: Dealing with Difficult People ( http://dealingdifficultpeople.blogspot.com/ )

Book: Understanding Other People: The Five Secrets ( http://www.understandingotherpeople.com/ )

Mennonite Momma 5 pts

Couple things come to mind re. Facebook. My college age daughter will not allow us to befriend her. That does nothing to improve the relationship. It's teen rebellion in the modern world, I guess.

Yet another issue...whether to let your children's friends befriend you. I'm not terribly comfortable having my younger kids' friends be my friends when I'm never sure what my adult friends are going to post on my wall.

My kids' lives are fairly void of technology compared to their peers. And it's STILL an issue (both good/bad) in our house.

Interesting topic!

~Mennonite Momma

http://mennonitemomma.wordpress.com/