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Heather Meyer, M.A., is a passionate fitness expert who believes in the power of transformation through movement. As an instructor, Heather is loved...
 
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Permission to Take Up Space: Finding Beauty Through Dance

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Own Your Beauty is a groundbreaking, year-long movement bringing women together to change the conversation about what beauty means. Our mission: to encourage and remind grown women that it is never too late to learn to love one's self and influence the lives of those around us - our mothers, friends, children, neighbors. We can shift our minds and hearts and change the path we follow in the pursuit of authentic beauty.

As a child, I remember literally throwing myself around full-force without thinking too much about the consequences; I had plenty of bruises to show for it. I vividly recall running in big circles around my front yard pretending to fly and then having vivid dreams about it actualizing. I fondly recollect choreographing my first piece to Flashdance, where I became conscious of the power of movement combined with music. I was uninhibited, inspired, and living lusciously as Wonder Woman at the young age of five. As a child, having fun was an easy, natural way of being.


As I got older, my relationship with my body changed. I internalized the subtle message that as a woman I should quietly take up as little space as possible. These thoughts changed how I moved, and dance became a self-conscious, self-critical experience, which was a bigger reflection on how I lived life and viewed myself within it.

It has been a lengthy process of reclaiming movement and dance. And, myself.

When I first started teaching dance fitness, I approached it with a more serious attitude, as I had found my strength studying martial arts. I taught my classes by mixing kickboxing with dance. There were bits of fun and silliness injected in here and there, but, overall, it was pretty serious business for me. Over time, I realized how much more enjoyable it was to have fun while working out. I found myself dancing fully, expressing my heart through movement with as much humor, playfulness, and spirit as I could muster.


What I have noticed in this process is that the more that I allow myself permission to let go, to take up space, to be strong, to be authentically me -- the more others give themselves permission to do the same. My dance classes have become a way for us to inspire each other by letting go of our inhibitions, enjoying our bodies for all the amazing things they do, and smiling and singing as we sweat and move.

It is my absolute honor to help people find pieces of peace within, while outwardly expressing this life process though dance with our bodies. I invite you to find ways to reclaim being uninhibited, inspired, and to live fully and lusciously. Breathe. Smile. Sing. Dance. Repeat in a different order with other fun things sprinkled in, turning up your personal volume.

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Heather Meyer blogs about fitness, loving your body, and finding inspiration in life at Work It Out!

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heatheralainemeyer 5 pts

Hola Claudia,
Thanks so much for the comments! I'm really happy to hear that in recent times, you are reclaiming music and letting your body communicate through dance! I've found that as I've gotten older and I've taken the stress of serious training out of it, I enjoy my body and dance even deeper! I totally recommend making yourself a fun playlist of your favorite upbeats songs and put it on when you need some shimmying in your life! Feel free to check out my ZigZag move to add in to your dancing: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_1p2eIDBaE
Bailamos, Hermosa!!!
Peace!

Heather Meyer blogs about fitness, loving your body, and finding inspiration in life at Work It Out! ( http://heathersworkitout.wordpress.com/ )

Claudia Calvin 5 pts

I find so encouraging, original and creative what you say. I love to dance. I wanted to be a dancer, but when I was 19 I had an accident and had to quit the project. I was studying highschool and Contemporary Dance at National School of Dance in Mexico City.

This changed my life in many ways, but I have realized throughout the years that I do have a relationship with my body, with the music and with whatever is involved around this two realities. I love dancing and feel than can express myself through it.

Thanks for highlighting the beauty of it all.

Saludos desde México

Visit Mujeres Construyendo ( http://www.mujeresconstruyendo.com/ ), where Spanish speaking women bloggers change the world. 

heatheralainemeyer 5 pts

Thanks so much for sharing! YES, we need to reclaim our space! I also really like your line "because art can change the world." It reminds me of the Ghandi quote.

Heather Meyer blogs about fitness, loving your body, and finding inspiration in life at Work It Out! ( http://heathersworkitout.wordpress.com/ )

heatheralainemeyer 5 pts

Hi Jory!
Thanks for sharing! I totally understand that adult transition. I'm glad parties get ya up. I think you need to put on a cut-off sweatshirt and do some Flashdance dancing around your house! Or, come to Shimmy Pop!
Peace!

Heather Meyer blogs about fitness, loving your body, and finding inspiration in life at Work It Out! ( http://heathersworkitout.wordpress.com/ )

heatheralainemeyer 5 pts

Hi Melissa,
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts! So happy to hear that your daughter is enjoying dance so much! I totally hear you on slowing dance down; I hope you continue to find your way to the dance floor. Maybe you can your favorite music on and dance around your house! : )
Peace!

Heather Meyer blogs about fitness, loving your body, and finding inspiration in life at Work It Out! ( http://heathersworkitout.wordpress.com/ )

livingartist 5 pts

My latest artwork ( http://www.fireseastudios.com/livingartist/?p=1102 ) was on just this subject, with the words "the greatest crime of a fat woman is that she dares to take up space."

Beautiful photographs.

~~~
Fire Sea Studios ( http://www.fireseastudios.com ) ~ because art can change the world

Jory Des Jardins 5 pts

Heather,

This post so drove it home for me. I was a dancer--I took lessons as a kid and performed in high school--but dropped dancing as soon as I got to college. Dancing was my means of fitness, but after H.S. it just seemed, I don't know, childish to pursue. As an adult I got my "dancing" in by walking around with music on, imagining myself dancing. I would complete full routines in my head while walking the streets of Manhattan, Brooklyn, San Francisco, wherever I was walking at the time. At the occasional party or wedding I'd dance with friends, but it wasn't the hard-core, sweat-dripping, Flashdance-inspired bouts that I used to have when I was younger. I have no idea if I could do the pirouettes and leaps that I used to, but give me a wood floor and the urge still is there.

Jory Des Jardins
writes on business and career topics at BlogHer, and on her personal blog From Here to Autonomy ( http://www.jorydesjardins.com )

Melissa Ford 5 pts

It's funny because I was just thinking about it this past weekend. I went to my daughter's dance school to watch a performance and the girls were so happy up there with these really simply choreographed numbers. It made me think about all the times I got up to sing and dance at a school talent show and how good it felt. And then one day, I just stopped dancing. At least in the performance sort of way. I still manage to get out on the dance floor and move my body from time to time :-)

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her novel about blogging is Life from Scratch ( http://www.life-from-scratch.com/ ).