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This is the first time that I've run out of ideas to get my 4 1/2 year old to listen. He's going through this "talking back" phase and it's really disruptive and disobedient. Tonight when we got home, his Dad gave him a snack to share with his brother while dinner was being made. He refused to share and was talking back so he got a time-out. While in the time-out, he got several warnings for talking back and not staying in the time-out quietly. His Dad told him the next outburst would get him to bed without dinner. Well, guess what?

Yep. We've only used that as a warning and it has always worked as such. No such luck tonight. Left with the threat hanging in the air, we had no choice but to follow through or render it ineffective. I cannot express how sad this is. I feel for him but he cannot be disrespectful to his parents (after several warnings and a time-out). We looked at each other and in silent agreement decided he must be put to bed. Well, he's in his room in his bed but it's far from over. I know this. I'm just hoping that we don't have to do this again.

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Jazz 5 pts

We did get to talk about it the next day. He apologized for being fresh (without prompting). I think we've had a good opportunity to see what works for us as a family. Thankfully, I think we won't have to use that method of discipline again.

Thank you for your opinion of the situation. It helps to know that I've not completely ruined my kid.
Jazz Brown
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dynamitt 5 pts

I work in child care and I know how kids can be sometimes. I believe it is very important that you do carry through what you say (as you did) and your son will not be harmed by not having dinner one night. Do talk to him though when everyone is calmed down and ask if he understand why you had to do this. Good luck.

Dina

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Jazz 5 pts

Denise,

Thank you for yor input. I can honestly say that it was terrible. We felt terrible as parents. We will not make that threat ever again since we never intended to enforce it in the first place. It was unexpected to have to.

My new post explains why this happened.

Jazz Brown
FineryInLife.com ( http://www.FineryInLife.com )

Denise 9 pts moderator

While I feel your pain, I hope you can find another punishment for him. Sending kids to bed without dinner is, in my opinion, not a great punishment and could have lasting effects. Do a google search for "send kids to bed without dinner", please.

~Denise
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