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Holiday Hot Buttons: Don’t Send the Wrong Message With Your Healthy Gift

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It’s that time of year again--any chance you're in dire need of ideas for holiday gifts? Something healthy might be nice, especially if the recipients are your loved ones and you’d prefer them all fit, energetic and happy instead of weak, slothful and depressed.

But even with helpful suggestions and the best intentions, it's still possible to screw up and end up giving a crappy gift. So before sharing some recommendations for healthy gift ideas, here are a few thoughts about what not to do.

Bad Ideas for Healthy Holiday Gifts:

1. The Bullying Gift.  Giving a digital scale to someone you think should lose weight, or a Turbo Kick-Boxing video to someone who shows no indication they are ready to embark on an aerobic fitness regimen, or swapping out a traditional cherished pound of See’s candy for a big box of stevia-sweetened flax and prune granola bars is not a helpful way to spread the joyful habit of health and fitness. Sure, it’s great to encourage and expand someone’s healthy habits with a fun gift. But you can’t create the desire to get healthy in a resistant person by giving them something they don’t want. Serves you right if they retaliate next year with fruitcake.

2. The Self-Absorbed Gift. It’s kind of adorable when a five year old girl gives a package of Barbie stickers to Dad for Christmas because she thinks they’re so cool everyone would want them. But it’s not as cute when a 30 year old woman gives her brother a brand new pair of Nike running shoes because she loves Nike and thinks these are the cutest pair of men’s shoes ever, but he plays tennis, doesn’t run, and has said many times that he thinks Nike sucks.

3. The Unreturnable Gift. Unless you are psychic, or you are crafty and are lovingly fashioning something hand-made, there is always the chance that the recipient is going to want to exchange what you have bought them for something else—even if it’s just a different size or color. So make it easy! Buy from a store they have access to. And it's' even better if you don’t make the giftee ask you for the receipt and force them to come up with tortured explanations of how much they really, really love their present but need to take it back anyway. Scratch out or remove the price, but leave tags on, keep original packing material, enclose a gift receipt, or whatever it takes so that you can preserve the illusion that you bought the perfect gift, but they can actually sneak off and get what they want.

 

My Ideas for Awesome Healthy Holiday Gifts:

Want to know what I want for Christmas?

1. A gift certificate for a lovely massage!

2. Then maybe another massage.

3. And, let’s see… how about one more massage?

4. Heck, I could really enjoy an additional massage if you don’t mind.

5. And lastly, hmm, perhaps a massage?

Massage instruments

Well, that takes care of me!

 

Much Better Health and Fitness Gift Ideas

Fortunately, there are other health and fitness bloggers who are a little more imaginative than I am, and have put together some great healthy gift suggestions.

Mary at A Merry Life compiled 13 awesome weight loss gift ideas, including:

1. A WII FIT.  They're still not giving them away, but if you've been waiting, finally the price has dropped on these a bit.  And they're "great for keeping you active when you could just be sitting." If you don’t know what to buy with it? Mary has, in addition, compiled a helpful list of accessories and fitness bundles.

2. Pedometer or Kitchen scale, or other more modestly priced fitness gadget.  Mary has several good brands to recommend.

3. Books and Magazines: These can include healthy cookbooks, self-help titles, and fitness magazines--Mary has some great suggestions and links. She also reminds us to support our favorite bloggers by buying their books!  For example, there's Half-Assed: A Weight-Loss Memoir or The Amazing Adventures of Dietgirl.

Lisa at Living With Your Heart  has come up with 9 more healthy gift ideas, including:

4.  A “Fitbit.”  This is apparently an extra-fancy pedometer that puts all your information onto your computer or iPhone. Cool!

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Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

Great idea in this economy. I'd join except I already have my cheap wine needs fulfilled by Trader Joe's Two Buck Chuck.

POD 5 pts

I'd take one of those in a second. WII Fit with my fitbit for a nitwit. Perfect. And the four year old grandniece pointing out my big fat bumbum.

Great suggestions. Too bad we're in some sort of recession and we only have money for the Ripple A Month Club.

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

Now I REALLY want a Wii and Wii Fit!!!  You make it sound very fun.

But I only want monitoring equipment on my GOOD days.

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

I think it's high time he moved to a merit-based gift system!

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

How is that possible? You're just a spring chicken!

And if you do happen to find an extra job lying around, will you send one to me?

RunAmy 5 pts

As a totally self-indulgent gift I recently bought a Wii and Wii Fit+, mostly because my excuses for sloth were outweighing my reasons for activity and I needed something new. I've only had it set up for 4 days and I've used it 3 of those. It's new and fun and I think with the bad weather outdoors I'll keep using it (almost) daily.

But what I REALLY want is a Fitbit. That looks too cool. Monitoring movement AND sleep!?! I can't believe I never heard of it before. Sometimes I think that with all the tech gadgets (Garmin, Nike+, iPhone, count-down beeping watch, etc.) I'll be so weighed down I won't be ABLE to run!

Karen@fitnessjourney 5 pts

Dear Santa,

I've been a very good girl and have endured hours of torture with my trainer. I'd like weekly massages and the red wine of the month club!

Say hi to the Mrs.

Love,

Karen

Denise 9 pts moderator

What are you trying to change? I can help you.

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Jody - Fit at 51 5 pts

OK, Crabby, you know I am 52 but I have tried to figure out how to change that here & spent way too much time. You know me, tech stupid!

Jody - Fit at 51 5 pts

Crabby, I will take the massage & the massage & follow that by one of everything below that!!!! No gift buying over here except the 7 crazy grandkids due to money. I hope to win the lotto & be able to buy gifts again! :-) I guess I best find a job in 2010! Hey, that is what I want.. a job that I actually like & want to go to!!!! I think that means working from home! :-) OR... an old lady fitness model which does not seem to be happening...

erin.etheridge 5 pts

After reading this, I'm now reconsdering buying skinny jeans four sizes too small for all my girlfriends.

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

I think the problem is so often we have trouble getting out of our own heads to imagine what other people really want.  I'm sure I've given a lot of awful gifts to people thinking they were totally great because that's what I'd want!

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

I hadn't run across the EA Sports Active thingy. Is it a stand-alone device, or do you need have a Wii already?

And too funny about the coal list.  Weirdly enough, I'd actually LIKE any of those things, at least until the novelty wore off.  Which is why "gift idea" posts are always pretty iffy--we're all so different in what we like!

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Great post.  I wish someone would give me a Wii Fit for Christmas...Unfortunately, I don't think it's going to happen.

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

That's my problem too...I don't have the Wii, so I would need to get one before I could get the Wii Fit.  Making it even more unlikely that I will see one under the tree this year.  :-(

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

I got all excited when I saw the price was dropping... but I don't have a Wii to start with! Clueless me didn't get that the Wii Fit isn't the whole package!

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

Keeping it modest & simple & useful is a great idea.

midnightbliss 5 pts

this holiday season, its not really about giving gifts, but if we do, lets try to be modest and give something that will realy be useful to the receiver, it that way, it will be appreciated more.

Crabby McSlacker 5 pts

Thanks for stopping by!  Now I must go try to find out what gift idea caught your eye!

Denise 9 pts moderator

You made me laugh out loud.

And, I didn't really expect to see anything on your list (besides the massage) that I'd be interested in but... I see something that I've never heard of and that something might be cool for errr someone who reads my BlogHer comments. So I'll shush now.

~Denise BlogHer Community Manager
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Sally K 5 pts

I agree with some simple, modest and useful.  However, more importantly, it has to be something the recipient would want and enjoy -- not something we want them to have.  Or at the very least, if you want to give someone something you want them to have, make sure you're giving them something they'd like along with it.  

MoreThanMommy 5 pts

If a Wii Fit is still too pricey, an EA Sports Active is a good choice. It's a more positive platform (i.e., it NEVER tells you you're obese or hints that you're not working out enough) and it has some really fun activities. I actually prefer it.

Better still, if you're not trying to send a hint, how about something like Active Life Outdoor Challenge that's more about fun, but still gets you moving.

Dear friends and family, anyone who gives me a medicine ball, pedometer or kitchen scale (UGH), will be on my coal list for life.

Christy