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5 Easy Ways To Keep Your New Year's Resolutions

No matter how hard I try, I always fail at my New Year's resolutions. How can I stay on track this time around?
You are not alone, but that doesn't mean you can't change. Read on to learn quick, easy ways to keep yourself accountable throughout the year.

Did you know that fewer than 2% of people actually follow through on their New Year's resolutions? Yes, it is true. You are not alone in making a long list of things you have every intention of doing each January -- and then falling off the wagon sometime between the first day of the year and mid-March.

I wish I could, but I cannot guarantee you that this will not happen in 2012. But, what I can do is give you 5 easy ways to give yourself an extra boost toward accomplishing the goals you set for yourself over the next 12 months.

1. Weekly Power Half-Hour
2. List of 3
3. Inspiration
4. Buddy Up
5. Lock It In

Weekly Power Half-Hour
You can set yourself up to succeed by simply setting aside a half-hour to an hour on Sunday evenings and, rather than vegging out in front of the tube, use that time to map out the key steps you need to take to achieve your goals in the coming week. There are 3 basic steps to this ritual:

  1. Remind yourself of your key goals and, more importantly, why attaining them is so important to you. Write them down once on an index card and then refer to the card in the weeks to come.
  2. Look back on your previous week and pat yourself on the back for any progress you made toward your goal (big or small). Recognizing your small successes is incredibly important because it keeps you motivated to continue on your path.
  3. Look ahead at the week to come and map out what you need to do and when. If your goal is to lose weight, schedule in your workouts and even think ahead to what kind of workouts you want to do. If your goal is to save money, make sure your meal plan is in place for the week.

List of 3
Limit the number of resolutions you make to no more than 3. This is important because a lot of people get ambitious on December 31st and come up with a laundry list of things they’d like to change. That’s all well and good, but your chances of success will go up if you focus on only a few. Especially given the hectic pace of life today, there is only so much mental and physical bandwidth to go around.

Inspiration
Sometimes there is nothing like a little visual cue or two to get or keep you inspired. It’s not very hard to put your own together quickly. Use a small 5 x 7” paper photo album to display the images you’ve selected. Use one per goal, or one goal per page, whatever works for you. Alternatively, keep a virtual board. Change the wallpaper on your computer to an image that inspires you to stick with it, or create your very own pinboard (or three) on Pinterest.com so that you have drool-worthy images related to your goal to turn to in moments of weakness.

Buddy Up
Whether it’s someone you know who wants to get organized or lose weight, find a friend who will help you keep your resolutions. We suggest this often for how to stick to getting organized, and it works just as well for keeping your New Year's resolutions. Meet to kick off your plan, then check back 4–5 weeks later, when most people quit. Also, plan a weekly check-in by phone, email, etc., and report to each other what you’ve accomplished. It keeps you focused and feeling successful.

Lock It In
What you commit to and write down gets done. This is certainly true for resolutions. Once you have your list of resolutions, think about how you can publicly let people know what you are committing to. You can post your goals as your status on Facebook or even try a site like Accompl.sh. With Accompl.sh, you publish your resolutions to the site and then you can share them publicly and track your progress. My resolutions are already locked in there for 2012.

The new year is a great time to reassess what you want to change and improve in your life. The best way to do that is focus on a few things, have an action plan and inspiration for yourself, and get support to help you when you just want to give up. Try the steps above and by mid-year you will be so proud of all you have accomplished.

How do you ensure you'll succeed in keeping your New Year's Resolutions or accomplish your goals? Please share your best tips in the comments below.

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Laura@GiveMe10 5 pts

Love these ideas! One strategy that has worked for me is to just ask myself to do my goal for 10 minutes a day. This helps keep it top of mind every day (even on days I've missed, I'm thinking about it). It also helps make it manageable -- the days that I dread or fear doing it, I know I don't have to do it for long. And once I get started it's usually not so bad. And 10 minutes takes the pressure off -- I don't have to accomplish something huge -- just getting in there at least moves the goal along...

muchfruit 5 pts

One of my best tips is kind of counterintuitive: I don't set SMART (specific/measurable/attainable/realistic/timebound) goals even though many experts recommend them. As a recovering black and white thinker, SMART goals set me up to feel pressured by "shoulds" instead of "wants" and quit out of frustration when I have setbacks. If I set goals WITHOUT all of the elements of a SMART goal, I enjoy pursuing the goal more and can pick myself up and try again when I don't reach it easily!

http://www.bearingeatingbeing.com/2012/01/the-hard...

The little brown house 7 pts

One of the tips I offer up is to celebrate small victories along the way! And to recognize that resolutions work from the inside out -

http://thelittlebrownhouse.us/?p=13524

thesimplyfreelife 5 pts

To keep my resolutions and goals, it helps to share with an accountability partner. I like to take a weekly inventory on how I am doing. Give yourself grace. If you mess up start again. I keep notes to myself for the plan for the day and follow it.

LeighannM 5 pts

One of my tips is replacing a habit you want to stop with a new healthier one.

http://marquissclan.blogspot.com/2012/01/keeping-n...

InspiredRD 6 pts

One of my biggest tips is to find your "why" behind each goal or resolution. That way, when you struggle to keep up with it, you can be motivated by the reason that you want to change in the first place.

http://inspiredrd.com/2012/01/5-tips-for-sticking-...

Farmgirl Susan 5 pts

What a great list. My New Year's resolutions definitely have a better chance now. :)

Here's a technique I started using years ago that's been helping me peck away at my (now much shorter) list of 2012 goals: micro actions. I'm really good at putting off things that I don't really feel like doing, or that I know will take a long time to complete, so I use micro actions to get me started:

http://www.farmgirlfare.com/2012/01/saturday-dose-...

nsbmom 5 pts

So far so good on the resolutions...keep it simple can make it happen this year! Baby steps. http://www.newsmyrnabeachmom.com/2012/01/how-are-t...

The Frugal Girl 5 pts

For me, the key is telling other people about my resolutions, and blogging is just SO helpful that way! http://www.thefrugalgirl.com/2012/01/keeping-new-y... I love having an audience to share my goals with.

babspinfrance 5 pts

This year I'm setting realistic resolutions and getting the family involved. Here are the rest of the ways that I'm sticking with my resolutions

http://barbarainclermont.blogspot.com/2012/01/stic...

somewhatsinglemama 5 pts

I resolved to be more positive, and to choose to be grateful and blissful. I realized 17 days into the year that I was really sucking at it. So I am resetting and trying it again. http://happytogetherish.blogspot.com/2012/01/attit...

Rita Arens 116 pts

Everything is easier when things have separate containers. You may extrapolate that however you want. Here's my post explaining what I mean when it comes to home organization: http://surrenderdorothy.typepad.com/surrender_doro...

AlexisAnne 6 pts

I think part of why resolutions fail is because resolutions are generally designed to expire. Just like a gallon of milk has a shelf life, so does a resolution. That doesn't mean that the gallon of milk was bad to start with, (or that your resolution wasn't a great idea), it just means that its time has passed and it's time to freshen up.

Part of the reason that most of us never make it past Feb with our resolutions is because while our resolutions are sitting on paper somewhere- we are out in the world living, growing, changing.

So what do we do? We re-evaluate and replace as necessary.

Read more on how to keep your resolutions growing with you at http://cleansmartsimple.blogspot.com/2012/01/expir...

Maria Niles 14 pts

AlexisAnne I have never thought of approaching resolutions or goals with that framework. What an excellent suggestion. Thanks!

imvickyb 5 pts

I resolved to lose the extra weight this year. For me that means not giving up. I will keep searching for the answers. I will stick to a plan to reach my goal. I wrote a post on it here:

http://secretmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2012/01/how-...

addmoms 8 pts

As a woman with Attention Deficit Disorder, keeping resolutions I make is far from easy. You've got some great ideas here that I'm going to try!

In my post at ADD Moms (http://addmoms.com/2012/01/18/2752/) one of the things I suggested was this:

"... begin to narrow your focus.

I know how our ADD minds work. We have this syndrome called “I’ve got all the time in the world” syndrome. It usually lasts until you have 24 hours or less to reach your goal when you haven’t started yet.

You can’t start trying to lose 10 lbs by December 31st on December 30th.

What you can do instead is to break down that goal into smaller action steps."

Maria Niles 14 pts

addmoms This is a terrific approach! I especially like your example of adding fruits and veggies in January and adding movement in February. That sounds like a realistic and achievable way to make progress towards a weight loss goal. Using this approach to any goal will allow you to maintain focus and increase your chances of reaching your goal. Thanks!

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