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Sex and Censorship: What Recent Attacks on Online Sex Discussions Have to Do With Your Blog

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In the end the Party would announce that two and two made five, and you would have to believe it. It was inevitable that they should make that claim sooner or later: the logic of their position demanded it. Not merely the validity of experience, but the very existence of external reality was tacitly denied by their philosophy.

That's a quote from George Orwell's 1984. I quote it because I want you to imagine a world where there exists no freedom to think for yourself or question what you are told. It's difficult to do given that we live in a country that allows us to think for ourselves and speak freely. But humor me.

Got it? Perfect. Now I'm going to tell you three little stories.

THE ATTACK ON THE DISCUSSION OF PORNOGRAPHY IN A SOCIAL CONTEXT

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Violet Blue is sex writer, activist and educator who, in response to a recent anti-pornography conference, created the website Our Porn, Ourselves, a resource destination founded on the belief that all women should have the right to choose whether they consume pornography or not and no single group should control what consenting adults can or cannot see. This site and its tenets, more than espouse pornography, espouse freedom.

Nevertheless, last month, Facebook decided to pull the plug on the 3,000-members strong Facebook page created for Our Porn, Ourselves, and sent Blue an e-mail citing the group's violation of its terms of service, which forbid pages that are “hateful, threatening, or obscene” and those that “attack an individual or group.”

On a post detailing the event, Blue indicates how vigilantly she curated the content of the page to prevent violations of Facebook terms:

I was very careful to police the page nearly hourly to keep the content strictly within Facebook's terms, as I knew the page was under scrutiny from anti-porn zealots (and I had been witnessing their underhanded tactics on the page to harass users since its inception). I immediately blocked anyone who tried to post pornographic content. I believe the page was an example of exemplary conduct in order to have a safe place in which women (and men) could talk about pornography in a socio-cultural context. I purposely wanted a work-safe, non-offensive destination for these discussions and to build women's community.

Blue went on to send Facebook a letter asking for an explanation behind the company's decision to remove the page, which pointed out that while this page did not violate the terms of Facebook, other pages by anti-pornography groups do threaten and and incite attacks on the members of this group.

At around the same time that this was happening, anti-pornography pages on Facebook exploded with praise to the social network for removing the offending page.

I am not a porn consumer, though some of my accounts detailing my encounters may be viewed as such. Regardless, I believe that we each should have the freedom to decide whether we wish to consume pornographic content or not. What anti-pornography activists see as the triumph of decency, I see as a corrosion of this freedom. Pornography is just a hop, skip and a jump away from erotica, from books and stories that dare to tell of people's sexual experiences, and anyone who doesn't fit their vision of what “decency” entails.

THE ATTACK ON THE DISCUSSION OF RESEARCH PERTAINING TO THE EFFECTS OF PORNOGRAPHY

At around the time that anti-porn activists were gearing up for the above-mentioned conference, I told a good friend of mine, Jason Goldman, a scientist at USC about some of their arguments. Being a man of inquiry, he decided to check out the literature on pornography and see whether these had any backing.

His post, created as a means to inform the world about the research that had been done on pornography, exploded within days with so many comments and attacks from various anti-porn activists that Goldman was forced to close the comments and eventually, unpublish the post. He's been on the web for some time, but blogging about animal cognition or science among peers leads to a different brand of discussion. Flame wars the likes of which we sex bloggers see are not part of the everyday for him.

After much thought, he republished the piece, stripped to the bare bones of the science it initially offered. He chose to maintain the comments section closed.

Once again, anti-pornography groups had succeeded in taking away an individuals right to

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avflox 5 pts

Your questioning the veracity of the statements put forth uncovered some very valid points, Maymay. These are excellent questions which raise serious concerns about the intent of the poster's original comments.

The alarmist attitude comparing pornography to a flu strain is worrisome. I took the name of the organization to mean this was a site focused on addressing addiction to pornography, not a crusade against it in general. The discrepancies you highlight here are worthy of response and I hope the site can come forward and continue this conversation.

AV Flox is the editor of Sex and the 405 ( http://sexandthe405.com ) -- what your newspaper would look like if it had a sex section.

maymaym 5 pts

I find this comment by "Fight the New Drug" strangely contradictory of the "Fight the New Drug" website. On the organization's website, they compare pornography with H1N1, not subtly, but directly, ( http://www.fightthenewdrug.org/Science/The-Pornogr... ) under a section entertainingly called "Science." This page reveals language like:

The world responded quickly and efficiently to the swine flu epidemic. Sadly there were thousands of lives lost and even more affected by its infectious spread. Let us treat the pornography epidemic with the same efficiency and urgency as we did the H1N1 influenza and protect ourselves against any further contamination.

Really? This group so eagerly views porn analogously to life-threatening viruses that it praises the government's swift and, to many anti-vaccination advocates, intrusive involvement in promoting public health initiatives, while simultaneously lamenting the lack of a similar government response about pornography (which it also views as an "epidemic") and you claim that you "don't support legislative action"?

I mean, really? That is the best two-faced double-speak I've read all day.

Oh, and for what it's worth, you're also wrong about this:

I know that you and your readers probably don't agree with our organizations mission.

Quite the contrary, as I've been saying in just about every post about this topic that I publish ( http://maybemaimed.com/2010/06/24/kinkforall-versu... ), that I do agree with your (stated) goal, just not with your means, your cherry-picked research ( http://www.charlieglickman.com/2010/07/7-ways-to-c... ), your framing, or the actual, shameful outcome of your efforts.

It is very convenient to say one thing and do another, but it is an absolutely disgusting way to behave, especially so consistently as you do. I feel Anaiis gives you far too much credit in her kind response to you and your group.

avflox 5 pts

I enjoy the privilege of an audience so varied I think you will be surprised by their positions. Personally, I respect any organization that wishes to educate people and engage in civilized debate.

I am interested in the development of your site, in specific the section about science supporting the position on the dangers of pornography. As you may recall from the post above, Jason Goldman read over some of the existing literature and commented on it. You may find the post useful. There is not a large body of literature on the topic, but it is always interesting to read what researchers are finding and more importantly, how they're going about it.

Thank you for taking the time to comment. I applaud your courage. In this comment is the groundwork for civil discourse on the topic.

AV Flox is the editor of Sex and the 405 ( http://sexandthe405.com ) -- what your newspaper would look like if it had a sex section.

Fight the New Drug 5 pts

"This isn't an issue of us versus them, morality versus indecency, conservatives versus liberals, believers versus atheists. This is a matter of freedom to speak, freedom to congregate, freedom to learn about ourselves and to share that knowledge. That's what this country stands for and it's essential that those of us who believe in these tenets take a stance against those seeking to oppress them."

I just have to say amen to this paragraph. I love how you frame this conversation. It is about first amendment rights. We couldn't agree more. It is a shame that Facebook removed the "Our Porn, Ourselves" group. It seemed as though Violet Blue was doing a fine job at keeping the discussion civil. I love that she wanted to open up conversation around the topic. I think that is very healthy. This next paragraph will differ from your points of view in some ways but you'll find that we agree in the most important ways.

I have an organization called Fight the New Drug (www.fightthenewdrug.org ( http://www.fightthenewdrug.org )) that educates on the harmful effects of pornography while recognizing individuals rights to view and produce it. We take the conversation outside of a moral discussion and use only science, facts, and personal accounts. We don't support legislative action and anyone who is trying to limit the supply of pornography is infringing on first amendment rights. Our goal is to decrease the demand through education yet still allowing the individual to make their own decision. We don't support censorship. This limits the individuals ability to choose for themselves. If households wish to place a content filter in their home then they have that right, however, we prefer individuals to educate themselves and make the decision that best suites them. All we want to do is educate youth on the harmful effects and let them choose for themselves.

I know that you and your readers probably don't agree with our organizations mission. In fact, I took a huge risk in even making a comment on this post. Just know that not all so-called "Anti-Porn" efforts are trying to take away your rights. If someone tries I will be right there beside you fighting to preserve them.

-Fight the New Drug