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The Flu Sucks. So Do You Get a Shot?

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The CDC recently held a blogger webinar to educate us about the flu.  Before becoming a parent, I thought the flu was a stomach bug, not realizing that no, it's actually a really horrific respiratory thing that sucks, sucks, sucks.  And I've now had it, in all its glory.  And so has my daughter.

I am still not so sure about flu shots. 

The CDC says the flu is preventable, and the shots will prevent it.  Of course, that's if the right strains were isolated and put into the shot. And if you're not allergic to eggs (if you are, shot = bad idea).  And, sometimes it seems, if the sun and moon are in alignment with Jupiter and it's Tuesday.

But they are kind of smart folks there at the CDC. And they are pretty adament about this.

And there are more options now. You can get the flu shot, which is essentially dead virus that will produce an immune response, or (if you're over the age of two) the mist, which is a live but weakened virus that does the same thing.

I pointed out on the call that at sometimes $25 a pop, vaccinating against flu can get expensive for your average family of four, especially right before Christmas. According to the CDC folks, there are 20,000 hospitalizations a year due to flu, which, I admit, is also pretty expensive. They also pointed out that flu vaccinations are covered by Medicare and Medicaid and told me there is a flu clinic locator on their site, here.

A recent study in the New England Journal of Medicine suggests that pregnant women (of whom only 15% are currently vaccinated against flu) who get vaccinated protect their infants for the first six months of life against the flu, too. And yet, ew.  Not everyone gets a flu shot. 

For those concerned about thimerosal, the vaccine preservative allegedly suspected of a connection with autism, there are a few thimerosal-free vaccine products available.

For the 2008-09 season, there is one product licensed for 6-23 month old children (the product is thimerosal-free). For children between the ages of 2 and 5 years of age, there are three products available that are thimerosal-free (sanofi's Fluzone; MedImmune's FluMist) or preservative-free (trace thimerosal- [Novartis's Fluvirin]).

The biggest argument I've heard against getting a flu shot is that it'll give you the flu.  A pharmacist blogger at The Bar and Chill writes:

The biggest myth is that the flu shot can cause you to become sick with the flu itself. I swear it doesn’t, I repeat the shot does not cause you to get sick with the flu!!! If you do happen to become sick after receiving the shot, it is because the virus can lay dormant within you for up to 2 weeks i.e. you were already destined to be sick.

Despite all the encouragement from the CDC and medical professionals, some people will still not want to mess with the vaccine. For those folks, the simple act of washing hands may be the best bet. Dr. Mercola writes:

Wash your hands – My mom always reminded me to do this when I was little. And I’m glad she did. Hand washing is one of the simplest and most effective ways to prevent infection. It decreases the chances of spreading the flu virus and other diseases like diarrhea to other people. But don’t just wash your hands with water. Use warm water and soap, work up a good lather all the way up to the wrists for up to 15 seconds and rinse and dry thoroughly. Alcohol-based hand sanitizers are also an effective alternative.

Do you get the shots?

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NAOmni 5 pts

I'm a fan of the flu shot. Always have been. And now I get it free since I work in a hospital. I can understand people's hesitation, but I've also seen people get the flu and if I can do ANYTHING to prevent it I'm going to. Same way I got the Gardasil vaccine. We need to take care of our health best we can.

Additionally, I just read some new research somewhere about how flu shots with half the dose were just as effective. It might be something you would be interested in googling. 

NAOmni

Giyen 5 pts

When I drink a packet of Emergen C daily, it seems to prevent me from getting a cold. I seem to get sick as soon as I run out and forget to buy it.

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KelleyS 5 pts

So, my husband, kids and I get a flu shot every year. Had not had flu for 10 years. This year was different. Got flu shot in Oct. and last week came down with worst flu I have ever had. Within hours of me getting it, my husband got it. Fortunately, the kids escaped unscathed, though worried. My daughter kept asking me when I would get our of my pajamas and my son asked, "mom, I know you are sick, but how will you survive if you don't eat?"

We survived and will probaly get the shot again next year.

Kelley, Too Busy to Shop

Denise 9 pts moderator

TW has been harping on me to get a flu shot for YEARS because she is immune compromised. And now that her mother and sister, also immune compromised, are coming to live with me she is insisting again. My response is... if you immune compromised people get the flu shot than aren't you immune to any flu I might get? Hmph.

The little kids went to get their flu shots and the squeamish boy child got out of it because he told his father he was feeling sick and might barf. Hahahaha. I think I'll try that tactic. It worked for the Prince, it should work for me - right?

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janny226 5 pts

I'm volunteering in the library at my son's school this year, so it seemed prudent to protect myself. Otherwise I usually don't.

Ironically, I caught whatever other respiratory bug is going around this year and was knocked out for a while anyhow. But it wasn't as bad as the flu, which I had once -- I was in bed for a week.

Jan at http://itsajanslife.blogspot.com/

Gena Haskett 6 pts

My veins know when there is a needle in the area and start to submerge. Those bloodsuckers have to spend time hunting for a place to take blood or inject something. Hate it, just hate it.

You catch the flu, you develop natural antibodies for the next similar strain. Most of the time that works for me, I might get the flu once in 3 to 5 years. I think we try so hard to stop nature. It is an enforced rest and downtime. Now I'm just speaking for me. Not saying to do this if you have kids or respiratory problems.

I also have concerns about who is mixing up the formula. I don't think (not sure about this) that America makes its own flu vaccine any more. Given recent news items about food and drug safety I'll take my chances with the flu.

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imabima 5 pts

With all the kids in the house and all the various random people I interact with all the time....I'm for sure getting a flu shot each year. And for the most part, it seems to work pretty well. It's hard to say what would happen without it because we always do it...

Kian Yamaguchi 5 pts

With 7 kids and a husband that works at the airport, I'd be crazy not to. Luckily for us, our insurance (Kaiser if you live in California) does this as a nurse visit, ie FREE.  So far, no flu!

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Greeblemonkey 5 pts

My son has mild asthma and I have diabetes. Nuff said.

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mamalang 5 pts

They are both asthmatic and are exposed to all those kid germs at school/daycare.  I am generally pretty healthy, with only the occasional sinus infection.  I did get the flu shot one year, and I missed 10 days of work in 3 months, 5 of them from a very severe case of the flu.  I know that the shot didn't cause it, but it didn't prevent the strain that was prevalent that year, and was pretty much useless.   

mamalang

KiniWoman 5 pts

I have not personally gotten one. Neither have my children. Though I may reconsider that for my one with sports-asthma. My dh gets one, usually every year when it's convenient for him.

kazari 5 pts

I'm asthmatic.  I can cope quite nicely with the flu, and any cold I may get - but the persistent cough that can follow for months after can be debilitating.  And usually requires steroids.

We get the flu shot free from work.  Usually I get it - but one year I got a mild fever the day after.  The next year I thought I'd skip it, and it was a big mistake.

knittingzeal 5 pts

I didn't get one regularly until I had my son last year.  As the primary caregiver for him daily, I don't have time or energy to spend on being sick.  I am lucky that my insurance covers the cost.  My husband has terrible allergies and asthma and always gets the flu shot.  His workplace gives it out for free.  Neither one of us has ever gotten the flu, yet, and neither of us had ever had a reaction to the shot afterwards. 

Just my two cents! 

Diane

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thewired1 5 pts

I'm diabetic, AND I'm prone to upper resperatory infections.  There are enough goofy things going on with my health as it is, I do not need to get felled by the flu for a few weeks or more.

Mata H 5 pts

I have an egg allergy, and even though it is very mild, no one will give me the shots. It makes me edgy as heck, as both my grandparents on my Mother's side (and two of her brothers) died in the 1918 flu epidemic, leaving her an orphaned infant.
The flu can be waaaay serious ...

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Lisse 5 pts

I've gotten a flu shot every year since I was a child. Not only did I not get the flu, I went for years without getting a winter cold at all. Now I have kids and more germs than I can fight off when I'm over tired, so I do get colds, but not the flu. My kids both get a flu shot. One is asthmatic.

My dad died from complications of the flu when I was a teenager. I don't mess around with it and I always encourage people to get vaccinated.

 -Lisse

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MrsWsKitchen 5 pts

Heck yeah!  On years that I haven't had the shot, I've gotten the flu without fail.  Either someone at work shares the virus, or  my husband brings it home from his job.  With the vaccine--and a couple of tylenol just before getting the shot--I've been healthy and happy all winter long.

When the vaccine is produced, they include the most common flu strains that they predict will be around for the year. But they can't foresee everything, so even with the shot you still should wash hands, practice preventive self-care, such as avoiding crowded places (the mall = viral petri dish) and not touching your face.  

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AmberS 5 pts

I wish I could say that I had a good reason, but I don't.  I just hate shots, and so I avoid them, possibly to my peril.  I do vaccinate my kids, but I feel like I don't want to sign them up for yet another poke when they're generally healthy.

~ Amber

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Erin Kotecki Vest 5 pts

We have asthma in our household as well and everything goes to my kids chests.

But honestly, what got me to do it and continue doing it was when my son was born a family in our town had a flu ridden child who ended up near death and hospitalized for weeks. The vaccine may have lessened or minimized his symptoms and suffering. Since then I've vaccinated our family each year and we've never had a severe case of the flu.

So you could say I was scared into it. But if my kids get it, I'd rather know I tried everything I could.

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MLOKnitting 5 pts

No, the one and only time I got the vaccination I ended up with pneumonia - which took 4 months to diagnose.

MLO / Melissa

mikki roo 5 pts

YES.  We have asthma tendencies in our household and we get them for free.  This year is the first in awhile that we have neglected to get them and we are paying dearly!!  

RenaissanceTrophyWife 5 pts

We live in a society where there are many universal quick fixes offered, even to those for whom it may not be as appropriate. 

First, I absolutely agree with the hand washing.  It's the simplest AND most effective way to prevent disease transmission.  When I worked at a public health department here in the SF bay area, our major education effort for flu awareness was getting people to wash their hands. Seriously.  It was that simple.

Re the vaccine, you have to assess whether your risk of catching the flu and its subsequent negative effects are worse than the risk of getting the flu shot.  In medical school, we focused on people who had weaker immune systems, ie the young and the old; plus people who had a lot of contact with others, like college kids, social workers, etc.  These populations are at higher risk for both getting the flu virus and potentially having more severe disease courses, so vaccinating is recommended highly.

As a medical student, I was vaccinated every year. I still get vaccinated although I am exposed to far fewer sick people-- however, I am around older and younger people who are high risk, and who I care for.  Therefore, I don't want to risk getting sick and passing it on to them.  To each their own-- just my 2 cents.

(Disclaimer:  Although I am an MD, I am not practicing, and I am not your doctor.  This is just my personal perspective on the issue; please contact your own physician if you have questions on what is most appropriate for you.)

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