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To foster or NOT to foster

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That is the question hanging around my house for the past few days.

I volunteer with an animal rescue, I am a foster mom, I sorta fell into it one day when my daughter and her friend found a momma dog and her puppy on the walk to school, she was huddled near a house shivering, almost completely bald. I did not find out about the dog and the puppy until after school, they ran in and told me, and the dog was still there. So we went out and low and behold there she was.

I grew up around tons of animals, had 50+ rabbits at once (easily) my dad bred them, had a ton in a freezer in my house too. My mom raised Chow-chows - at a time we'd have 8-9 of the purple tongued furballs, I had 2 beagles. We also had numerous chickens a few roosters, and a couple goats, few cats, and 3-4 birds, I went through a phase of breeding gerbils, as a kid - that was rather interesting to go from 2 gerbils to about 15, they gave new meaning to "breeding like rabbits" . My mom also pet sat a couple ferrets.....very creepy, annoying, mean, and NASTY animals IMO lol!

So of course I grew up loving animals (to an extent) I know my place in the world and I know theirs - they are the pet - not my equal, there-fore not treated as my equal....may be harsh, but that's how I was raised.

Anyway, we lured the dog home, her puppy wondered off, I locked her in the abandoned lot next to my house and my daughter and I posted on Freecycle and called the SPCA......for HELP! Eventually, a rescue contacted me and came out and helped with everything else. We found her puppy days - maybe a week later. She was not in good shape and had to be put down. The dog - my daughter and I named her Laika (google that) And today Laika is living large somewhere! :) And so my journey into animal rescue began.

I have rescued several cats off my street, the rescue had a group come in and trap them, fixed them all and adopted some out, released the feral ones back out on my block. Now I feed them, with the help of the rescue providing me with food. I have rescued several dogs wondering around my area, fostered mostly all of them unless they were in really bad shape. I have helped a cat birth a litter of kittens - THAT was an experience let me tell ya! I have also fostered a few that the rescue sent to me, that they rescued from GA about to be gased -

Our last foster, Chuckie, I said would be the LAST dog we'd foster, I always get the puppy's - who need to be house trained, and taught to do everything, in order to go to a new home. OK I have 4 kids, and now a puppy to train - hahaa...I did my best though, with much of my daughters help!! Chuckie has since left us and is living a luxurious life with a HUUUGE yard and siblings!!

The other night the rescue (owner) called and informed me of a dog, asked if I could foster her. Even though I told her we could NOT foster anymore dogs - they need alot of attention, and I am sooo busy now homeschooling my 4 kids, when I'm not I am cleaning up and preparing for the next day, cooking, cleaning, or working out of the house. BUT....this is an older dog, shes 6. (hmmm keep talking)

Before, I had (fostered) medium sized dogs, pit bulls mostly, Chuckie we believe was a St Bernard mixed with a hound....? But a bit too big for our tiny house with 6 people....

THIS one is a chihuahua/pekingese I think I read. So a small dog....hmmmm, AND shes litter box trained!!!!!!!! HUGE plus, considering we do not have a yard, and she really only needs to be outside about 5 minutes or so she said - IF that, and she'd need a sweater <3. Her owner has to surrender her due to issues with the dog and family members.

OK, if it was up to me 100% - I'd take her in a heartbeat, I was told she'd be on the rescues website up for adoption, but there could be a chance I could keep her, since shes the perfect size for US, and I

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Maggiezcrew 5 pts

:(
Well I got my hopes up for nothing!

Playing phone tag with the owner, her not calling back, and when she did she was rushing out and saying "I'll call you later" never did.

The rescue I volunteer for, finally told the woman we could not help her, I found out this has been going on for MONTHS!!! Not weeks as I thought - but months of her never giving a straight answer, my rescue is extremely overwhelmed with saving fur-baby's, and as much as it really hurt to finally say NO - the rescue owner had to. :(

The lady was told, a foster home was found (me) she was given my email and number....I never heard from her.

I knew I shouldn't have gotten my hopes up, and I still have a small part of me thinking I might hear about miss Tiny again...but until then, we are still dog-less. Sadly though, after the last foster dog, hubby put his foot down NO MORE DOGS....(I kinda did too) but with Tiny being so Tiny lol...he was making an exception. I'd really hate to be told I need to take another foster - another bigger foster, like a Pit (like before)- and I have to turn it down. :( Our house is very small, too small for the 6 of us, 1 cat, 1 guinea pig, and the rabbit living large in a great dane dog crate. Plus we have no yard, So a medium size, large dog - we just can't deal with anymore.
:(

Poor miss Tiny...as she is quarantined in a bedroom 1/2 day - sorry baby girl - I tried.

Beverly Flaxington 5 pts

I loved reading this blog. I am very involved in animal rescue and have been a "failed" foster twice. Both times I kept the dogs. When the foster was going to be my fourth, I VOWED to my husband the dog wasn't going to stay. 100 lbs of slobber and I really was happy when someone adopted him and we were back down to just three dogs. Next thing we know he jumps out of the new adopters windows, destroys their home and is a general terror so they return him to the rescue group. He obviously wanted to come live with us, so here he is happily snoring with the other three laying next to him. Four dogs along with four cats and now my son wants a lizard.
Now I volunteer to clean cages every Monday so I can get my fix, but not bring them home. I can't imagine a life without them! I hope you decide to keep the little gal!

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Beverly Flaxington

Author, Understanding Other People ( http://www.understandingotherpeople.com/ )

Maggiezcrew 5 pts

I have heard over the years, that ferrets are like the way you described, I guess the ones my mom had were completely opposite, or weren't cared for properly by their owner, thats why they were so mean, but then again - as an adult, and knowing what I know now - maybe they were, they might have been stressed from being moved to a new place...?
I totally agree about having animals around kids, that is why I really like doing what I do, we have our pets (cat, guinea pig and a rabbit) but I love the fact that my kids are also learning to take care of and love other types of animals. I really like how they get to experience the different personalities of the ones we've had.

moxiemom 5 pts

We're thinking about adding a shelter cat to our home. You've inspired me to get on with it! Good Luck!

Best,

Margee 

Blogger at www.sleepingwiththelaundry.com ( http://www.moxiemom.com/ ) and author of the iPhone app, Sleeping With the Laundry: Notes from the Mommy Track,

decaf_debi 5 pts

We currently have three dogs (well, four are here but we're dog-sitting one for the weekend), two cats, two ferrets, and a fish and snail. I've always had animals around.

I can't even count how many animals I have fostered over the years. It started by accident, as I would find one and take it in while trying to find a good home for it. If I see an animal lost/wandering/hurt/whatever outside, I make it my mission to catch it, check it for tags, post signs, email groups, and so on until I get it home or into a new family.

While I've kept the majority of ferrets that have come to me as fosters — including up to 10 at once — because, like you, most people "misunderstand" the sweet little, affectionate, personable, dears, because of space issues, I find homes for the various dogs and cats. It's been great for me and for my kids, because they have experienced being around a variety of animals (hence, they aren't afraid of any), variety of breeds and sizes so they can develop their own personal preferences, and they get the chance to see how an animal is grateful for getting a second chance and the excitement that one can bring to a new "forever" family.

I think having fosters, especially around kids, teaches many more lessons and helps create more caring and compassionate adults. Yea for you!

Debi, grinding through life at www.decafdiaries.com ( http://www.decafdiaries.com )
and paying the bills at www.brandnewconcept.com ( http://www.brandnewconcept.com )

Maggiezcrew 5 pts

Love the picture Blogher added next to my post - cause that is what Tiny is.

To follow up...I went to Toni again last night, pled my case about Tiny, :) I'm happy to say about a half hour later I was writing an email to the rescue owner and letting her know, we can bring Tiny here!!!

I told my younger kids about it - they are so excited.
She has to contact the owner - and then maybe this weekend I will know when Tiny will be joining our family.

onblank 5 pts

Life is messy. We have all kinds of situations where things aren't as convenient as we'd like. We get phone calls from loved ones while we're in the middle of cooking dinner. We get lonely people in the checkout line looking to connect, briefly, with another human being but we're too busy stacking up our groceries so we can get through the line and on with our "To Do" list.

If you wait for a convenient time to make a difference in a living creature's life, you will always be too late.

Solidarity.

--Kristina

www.OnBlank.com ( http://www.OnBlank.com )

BarnMaven 5 pts

Of the four dogs in my house at the moment, three are mine. I lost count at how many dogs I've fostered over the years. Two have ended up being permanent members of the house, some I've wished I could keep, some I've been grateful to see find a home, and all of them have given me the chance to do something to say 'thanks' for all the things that dogs have done for me.

My current foster was to be put to sleep because her owner was moving and couldn't take her. Thankfully the vet tech convinced the owner to surrender her to the rescue I foster for. She's a lovely dog who is going to be a wonderful family member for someone and get to enjoy some more happy years, all because someone stepped up and said "I'll give her a chance."

Do it! Tiny needs you!

Mary a/k/a BarnMaven blogs at http://www.barnmaven.com about single parenting, living with ADHD, too many animals to count and dealing with ADHD/Bipolar kids.