Like the Duggar Girls, I Was Assaulted. I Pretended to Be Asleep.

Sometimes it's easier to pretend that nothing happened than face the consequences. Victims of abuse often say that they pretended to be asleep in hopes that the abuser would stop. Unfortunately, that doesn't usually work. ...more
Yes. Remembered this when I read your comment.more

A Letter to Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar

Jim Bob and Michelle: I am not going to mince words. YOU HAVE FAILED YOUR DAUGHTERS. It is your job to protect them. You did not. Instead, you chose to protect your son....more
MinnesotaJoY Wonderful. I hope it helps others dealing with the same issues.more

Haven't Blogged in Awhile...

So something positive that's happened since my breakup is I'm getting a LOT more sleep. No more waiting on my late-night goodnight calls, which always ended up being a litany of complaints from him...and looking at pictures lately, I'm starting to look happy again. I looked so stressed out and tired in my pictures during that relationship. And I lost so much weight. 116 is not good for someone 5'7" and in shape. I'm 123 now and look much better! I've still been doing my spin and have run a couple of 5Ks, which I plan to continue....more

I'm Still Proud of Baltimore Mom Controlling Rioting Son

I admit two things when I saw the video of this Baltimore mother who was angry that her son was involved in the rioting.  The first, is that I was cheering her on, because I was glad to see that at least one mother was taking responsibility for her child's actions.  Secondly, I was a little perturbed that she was repeatedly hitting him.  Still, some of the remarks on social media and blog posts regarding the instance hit a nerve with me....more

Eminem Song=My Life; Bummer

“How do you raise a child if you weren’t raised?”...more

Dearest Readers

Dearest readers,Can we talk?I wanna tell you a secret.In my not-so-distant past, I've settled for less.I've journeyed the rugged, tar-black roads of lies about who I am.  Maybe you’ve traveled similar paths.  If so, you know the routes spewing filth and dust. The kind of dust that sticks to your skin like black tar, lingering for days, weeks, years. Whispering lies about who you are....more


Brenda Coffee@1010ParkPlacehttp://www.1010parkplace.comFueled by an endless supply of cocaine and vodka, my first husband fired a bullet through a closed door, into the room where I was standing. My response was immediate. Instinctual. No time to plan my jump from the second story window. I shoved it open and leapt into the night, hoping the tree outside would break my fall. ...more
momndaughtersavings Your daughters! How are YOU coping? Oh, I would like to reach out and give ...more

#WomensLives: A reflection of my experience with domestic violence

the topic of domestic violence has been weaved throughout my life since i was a little girl. it was something drifting in the air, before i even knew what that something was – and even now, as a 31 year old woman i barely give it a thought to what a monumental thing that i’ve personally witnessed in regards to domestic violence....more

A box that contains my pain, my childhood