Oops I Did It Again

 Oops! I did it again, I fell for his games. You wondering who I’m talking about? My ex. That’s who....more
So, I was dating a guy who had  addictive tendencies  and had to break it up. I had to think ...more

Confessions of a Recovered People Pleaser

One thing about blogging for me is this: whatever is going on in my  life emotionally will likely find its way into my post. That said, let's talk about change, growth and what it means to stop people pleasing. I was dumped. Not by a man I loved, but by a woman. A friend. ...more

Did you know addiction is a disease? My story and My disease.

Some of us have known an addict. Some of us have experienced addiction first hand. I am only one of the twenty three million Americans who are addicted to drugs. Only 1 in every 10 of these people receive treatment. I am one of the lucky ones.Before treatment though, I was just like every other addict. I thought that I was in control of my life. I didnt think I was doing anything wrong at first. Until my addiction became so uncontrollable that I almost lost everything including my life....more
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A New Beginning

Things feel so overwhelming sometimes. I've had to face some tough facts the last few days. I raved to everyone about how great he was doing, without ever really mentioning that there had been relapses. When he stated how long he'd been clean, I never stood up and said, "Ummm, no. You've relapsed several times since then."...more
You have a good heart, genuinely wanting to help.  At the same time you may be codependent, so ...more