The female titles Mrs, Miss, Ms: Paula Coston reclaims the best (but might surprise you with her choice)

Not going to talk about autumn in England. For a woman childless not of her own volition, too much fruitfulness about. I'm going to talk about women's titles - known as 'honorifics' - instead. ...more

When Being Single Is Really Awesome

When is being single really awesome? (1) While most people I know have their schedules and decisions tied up and dependent on their partner's/spouse's/kids' schedules, I am  totally free to decide for myself....more
myfemalepersuasion good for you for knowing what you want and being clear with it. yes, i ...more

Being Single ≠ Being Broken

This past weekend, I attended our church conference's Annual Camp Meeting.  This is a time during the year when church members from churches all over our conference (TX, AR, OK, LA, NM)  gather together in Athens, TX for worship.  You get to see people you haven't seen since the previous year, and meet new faces as well....more

What I'm learning from online dating the second time around

Online dating is really not a new thing, in this day and age and as you know, I have tried this route of making my selection before and went through a whole lot of mess....more

Our Society and the Single Woman

I honestly did not realise how the general society see single and successful women. Honestly I didn’t, no not at I don’t have a partner / boyfriend or husband and no I don’t have any children either! In our world and our society, somehow, one way or the other, the never married, singletons in their late 30′s are viewed just a little bit differently.>> Continue here >>>>>...more

Date is a four letter word

You are fabulous. No matter where you go, you have a good time. You may like to drink beer, eat wings and watch sports or eat at a fancy restaurant. You have a great family (maybe crazy because aren't all families?), close knit circle of friends, interesting hobbies and are fun to be around....more

I'm 44, Single, and Happy (Believe It or Not)!

I am a 44-year-old woman and I’m single. Never been married. No kids. Living life solo. I don’t say this to elicit pity and I also don’t wear it as some sort of badge of honor. I’m just stating a fact. It is a reality that many people live with daily. I stress the word live because that is what many of us are doing -– living. We’re not cowering in a corner, weeping because we haven’t started families. We live. Oddly, many around us don’t see it this way. ...more
Hi all :) I am so thankful I stumbled upon this blog. I am 44 years old and I thought I had a ...more

Already Been Chewed

Morning Readers! Oh, I miss you guys!  But, I’m happy and things are going well with The Date again.  Playing Myrna on the couch and watching Sex and the City is every bit as fulfilling as I thought it would be.  To be honest, it’s pretty much better than I thought it would be.  I’d gush, but… you guys would hate that and so would he. So…. ...more

Sleeping with the Enemy

The road of dating is filled with fun, so much fun as you know..The whole path of ‘wooing’ and being ‘wooed’ , as colloquial as I can possibly be , is equally pleasing for men and women Real men who are onto something, enjoy the process.Who doesn’t want to discover something new, fresh and of good value? And real women also like to take their time to discover what they’re getting into. After all, ‘hooking’ up with someone these days goes way beyond a brief hanky panky between the sheets moments. Which means WiseGirls usually take their time in making big decisions....more

The Ups and Downs of Dating Younger Men

Yes, they’re attractive, full of life and well, give me something more to laugh about and learn but the good fortune of dating a relatively younger guy is, how do I put this for you to understand, requiring me to develop new set of skills if the hope that two will eventually become one will ever come to pass.   Continue To Read >>...more