The Journey Into BDSM 'Subspace'

Sometimes, you have to allow your sexual journey to flow. Other times, you have to grab it by the balls and say "I'm going to get laid". It was more the latter of those choices when I decided to say "Yes" and get together with [Mostly Harmless]....more
A great read!  People who are into kink function differently in the bedroom...although a lot of ...more

Vee

Margie moved in with Vee after a few more chanting sessions with the Buddha Life group.  They were all very happy to have her join, yet Margie couldn’t help but approach the whole scenario cautiously. By that time, she’d become aware that she was being monitored, but not understanding why, or by whom – only that it began when she’d first joined the game “Dream Life” – and worsened after she left her husband, Pete....more

My Obsession with BDSM: I Wanted It To Be Dangerous

As a teenager, I hadn’t given much thought to power games, though I played them all the time. I was the one who taped the proverbial “kick me” sign on the back of the cheerleader who snubbed me, and hid the clothes of a guy who groped me in a hot tub. If someone got the better of me, I stewed about it for days, dreaming up paybacks. ...more
Its one of my many fetishes. #fetishistmore

50 Shades of BDSM For Beginners

When the 50 Shades of Grey novels first started becoming popular, some of my friends who are in theBDSM scene (and have been for years) were excited that their particular brand of play was getting some national attention. But that joy quickly faded when they realized something– while housewives all over the country were getting their jollies off on these books, they weren’t portraying realistic, and, more importantly, healthy BDSM relationships....more
I find that I am increasingly irritated that BDSM/fetishists are being lumped into this general ...more

Hit Me With Your Best Shot

One thing that has been glaringly obvious for me, as a person of color in the kink community, is the scarcity of other POC in the kink/fetish community.  I had been lurking on a well-known lifestyle website for almost a year before I met anyone in person and the messages I had gotten ranged from slightly creepy to downright offensive. I got countless messages from people interested in race-play and although some people are into that, I'm not one of those people. I even made a point to include the words "No Race Play" on my profile as a deterrent....more

Once You Go Kink, You Never Go Back?

Yesterday, one of my patients coded in an ICU room one floor above my granny’s own ICU room. I was on hour 14 of my work day. My body was tired and my mind was fried, racing with random stressors… you’ve lost one grandmother this year already, it’s too soon to lose another… stop to pay the deposit on the graduation venue tomorrow after work… compliance training is due tomorrow, final warning… where is your period? Oh. The patient. This script has been on a cruel, everlasting loop in my brain for the last couple weeks. Emotionally, I’m fragile. Sexually, I’m frustrated. ...more

The Crimson Chronicles: Episode 3A Not as Easy as It Looks 040413

              Recently, at a gathering, a gentleman, intrigued by what I do, enquired as to how I began my career. Before I could respond, his wife, with a shrug of her shoulders and a toss of her head, said "Well, darling, that's easy: a whip and some chains and anyone can be a dominatrix." With a smile and cold eyes I rejoined: "I agree as far as this: anyone can act like or look like a dominatrix but to be a true dominatrix...that is a rara avis."...more

The Crimson Chronicles: Ep01A The Look of Love 200313

Mistress Raevenprofessional dominatrix.sex educator.writer of erotica.fashion stylistLondon's Dark Secret.HBIC: Raevensclaw Arts UKLondon*Paris*San Francisco*New York Cityclasses.workshops.events. fashion   ...more

The Crimson Chronicles: Episode 01 Right from the Start 150313

Mistress RaevenLondon's Dark Secretprofessional dominatrix.sex educator.writer of erotica.fashion stylistHBIC: Raevensclaw Arts UKLondon*Paris*San Francisco*New York Cityclasses.workshops.events. fashion ...more

Kink Only Hurts When You Want It To

October is Domestic/Intimate Partner Awareness Month...more