Amazing discovery that I re-made recently. My husband and I have a code. If I say, “What’s your favorite color tonight?” He knows I am asking him what lingerie he wants to see. Of course, I can pick my own, but it’s a fun way for me to get him involved in some mental foreplay....more
As I sit here typing this article, I look down my hands and fingers and I note that we come packaged with our own tools for self-pleasure: our hands and fingers. Too often I’ve had women look at me with downcast eyes and say in hushed tones, “I just can’t touch myself there.” Whenever, I hear this sentiment, it makes me both sad and angry. Sad, that women are not enjoying the beauty and pleasure that they can achieve through self-touch and angry that our society somehow still perpetuates the myth that some places on our bodies are off limits or dirty....more
Step 2 - Taking Care of THEM Oh, how simple it would be if we could just start taking better care of ourselves and our relationships would magically transform. While pampering ourselves is necessary in order to shift from our routine headspace and into that sexy, sassy mentality so important to banging sex, we can’t forget that our partners need to be cherished too. So, let’s move from ME and onto THEM, bearing in mind that it’s all interconnected. Tune In...more
Is boredom creeping in to your bedroom? When sex becomes unfulfilling for one or both partners, it could negatively affect your relationship. What can you do to improve your sex life? Here are some tips to kick boredom out of the bedroom....more
As a woman who would do pretty much anything for a good (or any) orgasm, I understand the lengths a woman may go to for a little pleasure. It shouldn’t be that way, but gosh, you know how men can be.
Here’s a perfect example. I just got off the phone with my friend, Louise, seeking advice for a particularly tricky problem involving a new vibrator and her boyfriend, the doctor.