My Painful Hair Journey

Hey there! Happy Wednesday!Being a blonde is a lot of work and I made the mistake last year to over bleach the shizznits out of my hair, which ultimately killed it and resulted in super dead, dry, crusty locks. I had no problem cutting it last September....more


You know how after you go to the salon and your stylist has tamed your generally unruly hair into sweet silky oblivion? The boost it gives you to your day is invaluable in my book.So on my quest for "that feeling" I am planning on picking up a few of the goodies my gal used on me recently, plus planning on revisiting some old favorites and checking out a newbie from a line I've been meaning to try.Here we go!...more

Your Hair is Burning...

I am blonde. I am smart. However, I have these moments in which I could swear the dumb blonde stories are talking about me. Thankfully they are mostly rare, and provide a lot of hilarious moments. My friends always say, "Well bless her heart. Isn't she cute?!" after I've said some outrageous comment. I think it's their southern way of saying well aren't you a dumb ass....more

Best Blonde Hair Color

Hi girls!If any of you have other thought about going blonde or are already blonde but looking for a change or some direction, I have created a photo list of the best blonde hollywood hair color I could find.This list is meant to inspire those of you who are interested in going flaxen. I searched a long time for the right photos that I thought you would really enjoy.Let me know what you think!<3...more

And Then The Dog Ate My Homework

I had just written my first official post for Nablopomo, with a photo and everything.  But it looks like it failed to upload and disappeared entirely.I'm number 319 on the list, which is good, but my blog link wasn't working, which is bad. I had a feeling I did the url wrong when I signed up.  But even with the right url, I kept trying to get back to my page and it just wouldn't work until maybe the third or fourth try....more
@Denise Sadly, that was my first post to blogher, not my first post to NaBloPoMo. The one that ...more

Left Speechless by a Blonde

This afternoon I was on the phone with a close relative of mine who happens to be blonde. She says to me, "They should have made white a different color because white stains too easily." I didn't know how to respond to that at all....more


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Enough is ENOUGH!

Enough is ENOUGH! What do you American men WANT from us? Okay, I KNOW…but really…who is coming up with the stuff that is supposed to turn men on? Or better yet, who is the “someone” who tells us ALL what it IS that turns men on? Before make-up came along it was ruby red lips and pink cheeks. It was achieved by milling your mouth and pinching your cheeks. And let’s not forget the corset that made those curves curvier. Add a curling iron, stockings and higher heels to the mix of shorter and shorter skirts and dresses. ...more