Is Your Man Cheating? 4 Warning Signs That May Point To Trouble!

You may have noticed some changes in your partner lately. Is itsomething you should be worried about or just ignore? Following are themost common warning signs that may indicate your relationship is headedfor trouble if you don't address the issues now.1. Your Partner Is Spending Less Time With You...more

I was one of those women as well. I had NO idea and all of the warning signs were right in ...more

Jungle Fever - Who's The Biggest Cheat-ah?!!

 Ladies, it was just this past weekend that I found myself in the middle of a heated debate with both men and women who shared different views about a topic that is very very argumentative...and that is...When it comes to relationships, who are the biggest cheaters?!...more

Who dat is? My baby daddy.

By now it’s made the rounds: the love-child admission heard round the world. John Edwards has admitted to fathering Frances Quinn, the daughter of former campaign worker Rielle Hunter. SHOCKING. I mean really. Did we not already know this? Did we not scoff and roll our eyes every single time John Edwards denied a) having an affair, b) showing up in a hotel room in LA holding a baby and c) actually owning up to being that baby’s father. Yeah, we did....more

"Instinct is the nose of the mind." - Delphine Gay de Girardin

For the record, I delivered almost a 10 pound baby, watched my mother die within one month of a terminal diagnosis and divorced an overbearing, abusive man. However, despite the strength I needed to face all of those challenges, this was definitely the most difficult.  I wish I could look back over the past several months and continue to rationalize all of the red flags I witnessed. I wish I could go back in time and erase all of the anxiety and challenges I have had to face as a result of this relationship....more

Why are the nights so hard?

Today should be the second week of my break up. But, techically, it's the first day. ...more

A Note From the Other Woman

I'm taking  your husband - for now.He tells me he loves me.  I'm no niave teenager seeking his approval.  He can't help but think that he loves me.  I do all the nasty things you can't bring yourself to do - and I love doing them.  All men fall in love with that for a while....more

Is it REALLY cheating?

Don’t shoot the messenger…I’m simply asking a question. A blog about cheating… Okay, so lately we’ve been hearing a lot about cheating male celebrities and the horrific outcomes. Mark Sanford faced impeachment. Tiger Woods is losing endorsements. John Edwards and David Letterman faced horrible embarrassment. And Steve McNair paid the ultimate price. And let me be clear: I’m SURE there are plenty of women that have cheated or are cheating as well, but for some reason, the men are making the headlines for it. ...more

Shame, shame, shame ... on who?

 Tiger Woods hits the front pages, and instead of fans cheering they’re reeling from his admission of foul play. Gasp! “Powerful men have a higher sex drive,” says one expert; “Men are just wired that way,” says another. “If women don’t want their men to stray, they need to turn up the passion in the bedroom.” And I say – Pleeeeze! We all know that men do not have a corner on the hormone market; the secret’s out and the facts are in, so enough with this foolishness—at least come up with something original....more

Tiger Woods and his Woodies

It’s everywhere. It’s all over news. It was on Larry King last night. And I’m on the bandwagon with the rest of the world. I’m fascinated. I can’t turn away....more

Triage for the Betrayed Wife: Steps to sanity...or close enough for now