12-Year Apart Twins

My twin and I were born twelve years apart in two different states from two different sets of parents. Well… other than that, we share so many “coincidences” you’d think we are twins. We are constantly amazed at our similarities. About the same height with fine hair and blue eyes, we share any number of likes and dislikes. We hate shoes and kick them off whenever possible; cannot stand turtleneck sweaters –in fact dislike wearing anything around our neck....more

Somewhere in the Middle?

Should I have expectations or keep hold of hope? Expectations are bound to disappoint while hope can strengthen a weary heart. But then as Proverbs points out, “hope deferred makes the heart sick”. Shall I continue to seek out safe places in this world or should I seek to be one?...more

Minor Realization

I was sitting in my bedroom on Tuesday doing a mental checklist of all things Christmas: gifts, food for get-togethers, what to wear to each one, etc. In the past, I would have had everything planned to a tee. That's just how I did things. I planned my entire wedding single-handedly right down to the smallest detail. I planned out my high school senior trip and even wrote out a detailed itinerary.But that part of me has dwindled so much. That super planning, wanna-be Martha Stewart side of me is barely recognizable anymore....more

One Child Saved From Abuse

Today a story quietly broke about a 7 year old girl saved through the efforts of  the United States Department of Homeland Security and the Royal Canadian Mounted Police Integrated Child Exploitation Unit. Her father who was arrested in Prince George, British Columbia is facing charges of possession, making and distributing child pornography....more

Best 4 Years of Your Life?!

Have you ever heard someone comment that high school was the best 4 years of their life? How did this ever get started?! For a long time, I thought I was the only person that disagreed with that because of everything I was dealing with. Eventually, I talked to other people who felt the same way....more

The Fight Against Child Abuse Takes More Than An Avatar

The blogging community is powerful -- we've done amazing things. While social media has helped us come together, we need to remember that the real magic happens when we step away from the virtual and make things tangible because the truth is, abused kids don't care about your Facebook status. They are looking for a safe place to sleep, a hot meal, clean clothes, and someone who will pay attention to them. ...more

I completely respect and see your view. I just look at it a different way. If one of the 1.25 ...more

Day Dreaming! Wake Up! Watch the Traffic!

Lately, Cece, Yun and a few friends are talking about the issues of a child’s  psychological safety during their tender growing years.  It is disheartening to witness, directly or indirectly, h...more

The Quest for Peace on Earth: Domestic Violence & the Holidays

Missing Boys I recently read a heart wrenching story about three young brothers from Michigan who are now missing after a court-ordered visit with ...more

Child Abuse is no Cartoon

I'm sorry Facebook Friends, I will not change my profile picture to show how much I hate child abuse.Aside from the utterly counterintuitive plea to put a human face on child abuse...by making my icon a cartoon, I don't need to put a human face to child abuse.I was that face of child abuse....more