Marriage Contracts: Should We Have Marital Term Limits?

Last year marked my thirteen-year wedding anniversary. I love the legal protections of marriage -- no one argues that my husband can't visit me in the hospital or shouldn't be able to pick something up for me or inherit my money. ...more
I have been married for the second time,(First marriage 11 yrs.)  for 35 yrs.. Marriage is a JOB ...more

5 Relationship Survival Tips for Travelers

When my partner and I first met, we did the best we could when it came to “dating” because we both had very hectic schedules and we lived in different states. The long distance was hard enough, but adding the fact that we both traveled for work only added more challenges. A couple of years later, he moved to a closer state and became more stationary, but my travel increased a great deal. ...more
One time when I was traveling, I picked a time (maybe noon), and every day I texted my husband a ...more


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More Than a Feeling

Four Years Gone

It was four years ago yesterday that my husband went in for surgery to have his leg removed. There was nothing easy about the decision, but then, there had been nothing easy about keeping the leg that had been mangled in a motorcycle accident more than 30 years earlier. The timing was horrible for me; I was in my last semester of getting my Masters in Architecture at the University of Florida, a grueling program that required long hours and complete dedication. However, I could hardly ask my husband to wait after all the pain he had been in since the last failed knee surgery....more

The obligatory love post

Here it is: The obligatory love post for February. Please don’t leave. Or roll your eyes. Or gag....more

Here's Why You Should Be Questioning Your Marriage

I question my marriage all the time.When my husband "Sven" and I get into a fight because he’s so stubborn it pisses me off to the point of throwing things of across the room, I ask myself if it’s possible for us to peacefully coexist. When I feel disappointed because Sven doesn’t spoil me with presents or capitulate to all my demands, I ask myself if he is really capable of giving me everything that I need....more
Very good points. It's the same reason I question God every so often. It really only strengthens ...more

Will He Ever Leave His Wife?

Reader beware — This is a Lisa rant.  Read at your own risk.  Just saying.Jennifer met Thomas on a work project.  They worked for different companies, but were assigned to work closely together on a contract project for almost three months.   Within the first few days Jennifer knew there was chemistry between them.  They didn’t talk about their personal lives, but it was pretty obvious what his status was.  Thomas wore a wedding ring....more

Is Your Boyfriend Not Ready For Marriage Because Of His Career?

Fewer men are getting married than ever before, and the number one reason why is because of their financial stability.When he says he’s not ready because his career is not where he wants it to be, he’s not the only one. “More than a quarter of those who say they want to marry someday say they haven’t yet because they are not financially prepared.” According to a Pew Research Report....more


Have you ever been with someone but you were confused as to whether they truly loved you or not? They may say it, they may even show it at times, but their words and actions are not consistent with a person who has chosen to love you. Well no need to be confused any longer. He/She does NOT love you. In fact, I will go out on a limb and say that he/she doesn’t have any idea what love is, much less what it entails....more
love to me : te days I dont love my self (PMS DAYS) when I am in rare form and my husband still ...more