The Clean, The Dirty and the Ridiculous

I am a cleanaholic. I clean to the point of marital discord at times. It is a sickness that is inbred and has formed over previous generations and was reluctantly passed down to me. The older I get, the more I need things to be clean and in order. Now, don’t get me wrong….I’m not like Jack Nicholson in As Good As It Gets washing-my-hands-10,000-times-a-day crazy, but I may be close. If there was a Nobel Peace Prize for cleanliness as a disorder I would certainly be a front runner. I believe a clean house is a sign of personal pride....more

The Beginning

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Before You Call Me Crazy...


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Crazy Nutty Women Inspire

Yes she is nuts, Yes she doesn't take her cue from anyone but herself but that is what I love about her.Do you have a Crazy Nutty Woman that inspires you? Does she make you think that yes you can do more. Does she make you feel fearless around her? ...more

Iced Tea, anyone?

Do you remember a while back when that email was circulating with the joke on it about how a man's bedtime routine differs from a woman's? He says he's going to bed, he brushes his teeth, gets into his PJ's, turns out the light and he's out. She says she's going to bed and then finds 100 things that still need doing before she turns in. Such is my life. All he asked for was a glass of iced tea. That's all. A two minute task at best, right?! ...more

Signs He's A Nut, Loser or In Need of Prayer

1. He does not support himself - exclusively. After 18, parents in the United States are not obligated to support adult children! 2. He curses and swears (period). 3. Mistreats his mother or other women in his life. 4. He expresses no interest in your kid(s). 5. He doesn't value your time (i.e. late, lies about when hexll call, etc.) 6. Hexs trying to sleep with you. (You respect yourself and demand that he do the same) 7. He puts his work before you. 8. He is has a violent streak (or he has an angry disposition) ...more

What I Learned from my first year of Marriage

My first year of marriage was like being on really long bad blind date. Suddenly the nice easy going guy I thought I knew, was shocking me with all sorts of new (and bewildering) behavior. Reality slapped me in the face on day three of our marriage and suddenly, I realized that not only was the honeymoon over but landmines were creeping up all over the landscape of my fairy tale. ...more

The High-Heel Challenge

A woman can add 3-inch pumps to any outfit and instantly look bold and sexy. What is it about the heightened heel that changes everything? ...more

If she's crazy, will I be, too?

In my years of dating since I got divorced, most of the men I've met have described their former girlfriends/wives as being psychos, lunatics, nuts, crazies, wackos, weirdos, kooks and screwballs. This always worries me, especially since I'm quite a few men's former lover and girlfriend and one man's former wife. Were they now all saying the same thing about me to some babe who's thinking she's somehow saner than I am? I know I have a few personality quirks, but I've always thought they could be considered rather endearing. ...more

What about the following perspective?

If the husband is not all the things you mention ...more