Sexy Back

"The gentlemen would like to buy your drinks" the Bartender tells my friend and I. He nods to the right, where the three handsome young guys from Dubai are sitting. My friend and I hadn't said more than two words to the guys before, but they've politely asked the Bartender to charge them for our drinks.  "Thank you," we say fully expecting the drink to now obligate us to a lengthy conversation about whatever it is 25 year-olds talk about these days: Jay-Z?  The "lifestyle brand" they're trying to get funding for? Why college is useless? Android vs. iPhone?...more

Is "scary woman" redundant?

With Halloween trying to sneak up on us, it's time to look without fear at the differences between what makes men scary and what makes women scary....more

Wow! I won #1 Best Adult Dating Blog!!!

What an extraordinary honor of being placed as the #1 Best Adult Dating Blog Award from Great Dating Blog! I want to thank all of you who voted for me! I really appreciate it! I am so glad that people find my blog useful, practical, and worthy of being #1 out of so many excellent bloggers!...more

My Experience With: Breakups

To put it simply, breakups suck. Unless you are one of the rare people in this world who married your first boyfriend, then you know what I’m talking about. Nothing unites a group of women more than starting a sentence with “We broke up.”(Starting a sentence with “Ryan Gosling” will also unite a group of women just as much, but for argument’s sake, break ups are universal uniters, ok?) Most women can relate to the pain of a fresh breakup and could probably sit and talk for hours about their breakup horror stories, the many empty tubs of Haagan Dazs, and bad rebounds....more

Sex at Fifty by Larry Miller

Many men will be turning fifty this year and there are many adjustments one has to get used to with this milestone. There’s the dreaded Colonoscopy men are told to get this done when they hit this age....more
Why does this article feature stock photography of people who appear to be well under 50?more

Mismatch.com: Divorced and (Online) Dating

I went on a date last night with an amazing guy.Really, we were totally on the same page and I enjoyed his company. I liked chatting with him and watching how he talked with his hands. He was really cute, too, with beautiful blue eyes. Our date wasn’t anything fancy, either. We grabbed some grub from the local pizza joint and then decided to ride bikes to the supermarket later to get some Ben & Jerry’s to accompany an Arrested Development marathon....more
Yep. Scared to death. That's how I feel when I think about "dating". I did sign up for EHarmony ...more

PLUS SIZE DATING – Wristband for Singles

At least once a day I meet a  bloke and think ” Ooh, he’s sexy I wonder if he’s single?” Sure, married men wear a wedding ring to show they’re spoken for but fellas who are engaged or in long term relationships don’t. If you’re in the plus size dating pool (like me) then you’ll know how much of a pain in the booty it is figuring out which guys are actually on the open dating market. Bloody hell can you please give me a sign?...more

Win a 50 Shades of Grey Spice Box!

I’m pleased to announce a giveaway for you guys! Get excited—I don’t usually offer these, but I have to say I saw this and I was really intrigued....more

*THAT* Christian Girl

The phrase I’ve been running from.  That Christian girl is the one who gets mad at a friend because there were no single guys at her wedding like she said there would be.  That Christian girl.  The one who went to Bible college and obtained her MRS. degree instead of her BS and became a stay at home mom using cloth diapers....more

To Date or Not To Date???