I'm really happy with Romeo. Like I'm actively not writing about how happy I am with him because I'm historically a jinx and also because talking about happy feelings makes me feel about as comfortable as wearing a sandpaper bikini....more
When you decide to play cupid for yourself, sometimes you hit tricky ground. Over the past few months I have felt every emotion I thought I could possibly feel, and unexpectedly. See, that's what “Cupid” has the power to do. It all started off with a smile, that quickly turned into realizing that the both of us click on every level. It went from working on developing a friendship to flirting, to finally hearing him say the other day, twice, that even he thinks we make a good team, together....more
BALANCING IT ALL OUT….I got to thinking about how important it is to balance the negative with the positive…..When we get around people who have significant problems and feel the need to listen or to help them….It then becomes important to balance that out with people who are doing well and achieving their dreams……No matter how good our intentions are or how much someone needs us when we get involved in their “energy” and listening to what is going on in their lives it reshifts who we are and what is going on in our lives….Their energy can quickly become our energy…....more
LET YOURSELF HAVE FUN……I simply think most relationship problems of all kinds come from people not having enough fun…..People simply become unhappy when too many restrictions are placed into their lives and fun has all but disappeared….Adults are simply like children in many ways….just grown up children….Adults still want to have fun…..People do not go into relationships to become misearble….at least not on the surface……but often relationships become miserable when too much pressure is placed in the relationship and fun has all but disappeared…....more
THE STUPID MARRIAGE MISTAKES….The STUPID Things People Do To Their Marriage….
Marriage is a Union between two people……A commitment to each other….Sure I guess there are variations of what a marriage should look like….Perhaps I am old fashioned, but I still think it is a Union of Commitment between two people…..who love each other….and get married for all the right reasons….
I think most people go into marriage with the right perspective….To Live Happily Ever After….and I do think that is a great thought process whether it is totally realistic or not day in and day out…...more