when costco is a go

Freddie and I have been debating getting a Costco membership for awhile now.  ^^^sounds like it should be the first line of a great screenplay, right? Nothing like the average American couple and their #thestruggleisreal probs.  But seriously, this struggle was real because have you ever done the math on if a Costco membership is worth it? No? Me either....more

the red wire or the blue wire?

Currently I have two Pinterest tabs opened on my computer. One so I can search makeup storage on bathroom counter, and the second so I can search office for men.  Two life or death/super important/hardest decision ever kind of things.  I am being the biggest baby when it comes to unpacking and decorating our new place....more

It’s Sharing Time!!

How do you decide what organizations or causes you will give your time, energy, and money too?Inspiritual: A space for spiritual evolution and transformation...more

Are you an adult?

I am in my mid-thirties. I manage a team of people in a frequently high-pressure industry. I am a wife to a wonderful husband and a mother to a chaotic (aka normal) five year old. But sometimes I do not feel like an adult....more

tell me that my hair looks good

Decisions are really hard. Sometimes I don't even know why I'm struggling so much with a decision about a simple change. For example, I spent months telling my family and friends that I wanted to lighten my hair for summer. Months. Finally, I did the deed and it turned out exactly how I wanted. I love it and would have loved it the same without the stress....more

I Haven't Always Done the Right Thing But I Have No Regrets: Here's Why

Not many people know this, but I’m a pretty big Broadway musical fan.  There are a lot of shows I haven’t seen, but I have some favorites and therefore have tons of their songs in my music library.  Nothing says ‘gangsta’ quite like rolling through the streets of Manhattan with the ‘Wicked’ soundtrack playing in your ears.  ...more

What to do When You Don't Know What to Do

Do you ever wonder what to do?Do you ever feel directionless?Have you ever gone through a time in your life when you didn't see a way?I have. Many times.It wasn't fun....more

My head is spinning. Such is life as a blogger.

If you're my friend on Facebook forgive the somewhat duplicate commentary from me. I started to write it all there and decided, well, this is almost a post - is it not? And so, here I am.And in all my confused glory ...I am so all over the place when it comes to conferences this coming year....more


 AFTER THE STORM HAS ENDED…..WHEN A STORM HAS PASSED…..A BRAND NEW YOU……PICKING UP THE PIECES….BUILDING A BRAND NEW LIFE….After the storms of life have ended….and we have survived and got through it….we then open our eyes to a new reality around us……We see what is still intact and left to the world as we knew it prior to the storm…..We had to wait till “The Sky quit falling…” and now one can begin to pick up the pieces….and begin to build a beautiful brand new life…....more


 IT IS ALL ABOUT DECISIONS…..A LIFETIME OF GREAT DECISIONS…..What is the difference between Success and Failure? The answer is in THE DECISIONS MADE…..Yes, It is all about DECISIONS…….A Lifetime of Decisions…..Our lives are decisions each and everyday…..We may not even notice but we are constantly making deciisons…..one right after the other…....more