Judge not...

I have been struck lately- like a blow to the head, really.  With how essential it is not to judge other people in the decisions they make for their lives....more

Mr. Passive/Agressive and Menopausal Me

I know it's inevitable, after six years together we've "hit a rough patch", and I'm troubled. I know I can get over these last few weeks of eye opening non-confrontations-I'm a forgive and forget it kinda gal. In fact, I can't NOT get over stuff, even stuff I swear I will NOT LET GO just slips away from me soon as I look away.Once I catch it and drag it back around again, it's not the same powerful animal it was and I don't care to feed it and nurture it back to life. It takes too much energy and attention. He's a non-fighter....more