The Best Ten Year Push Present Ever

Ten years ago I became a mom for the first time.  I remember thinking I had my shit together, and that it was going to be no problem.  Boy was I in for it....more

Family Law: Not!

There is no reason why divorce should equate to destruction.Divorce is defined as “an ending of a marriage by an official decision in a court of law.” Ending is defined as “the final part or finishing point of a period of time, of an event, or of a book, movie, or other work.” Destruction is defined as “the act or process of destroying something.” Amicable divorces are rare and that needs to change for the sake of the children and both parents....more

Young Women Need to Be Selective not Selected

As you know, if you’ve read my very first post, that I share joint custody of my two girls with my ex.  Just recently, the jerk that is my ex husband decided to quit working so that his parenting time wouldn’t be reduced to only weekends.  This resulted in the judge ’awarding’ us 50/50 parenting time.  So now, I have the girls from Saturday to Wednesday (4 nights) and he has Wednesday to Saturday (3 nights).  ...more

Great post and good reminders, although I disagree about not marrying in your 20s... I ...more