What Women Want

Let’s start with Sarah Palin: wife, mother, governor, on the campaign trail for Vice President… Moose Lover!...more

To Stay Or Not To Stay… For The Kids Sake

Hi Ladies, ...more

The Dating Gloom & Doom Bandwagon

  During a 24-hour period last week, I heard three gloomy outlooks on dating from three different women in their late thirties or early forties. ...more

Dating Time Traps for Single Parents

As a single parent, not only is it challenging to find time to date, dating can also be a tightrope of indecision.  Many new questions arise when factoring children into the dating equation, ones you may not have faced when building a relationship in your pre-parenting years.  The timing of major relationship milestones each take on new meaning and emotional significance—both for you and your children.  Knowing when is too soon to take a next step in a new relationship is not always clear. But don’t let navigating these new considerations trap your d...more

Stage Two.

When this whole shitstorm began, I talked to my older sister, one of the few people I know who has been divorced at this age."You'll be sad for a while," she said, "and rightfully so.  And at some point, you'll start to get really angry, and rightfully so.  Then you'll just want to drink all the time.  Just try to remember when you're angry, don't do damage. That looks bad in court.  And don't drink if you can help it.  All it does is waste your money and time."...more

you know what? At least you found out now. This could have happened in 12 years when your ...more


There was another woman.Someone he worked with, someone who slept with another married man at their job.  Someone he texted more than he did me -- there are pages upon pages of her number splashed across his phone records where my number barely exists, and most of those messages were late-night and on weekends.  Someone who lived close to our home.  Someone he said came on to him.But he swears he didn't cheat....more

Don't Cry For Me Argentina, You Whore

Yesterday was a great day. (Not really, but for purposes of this post, it was fantastic) I finally had a meeting with the director of the organization, Friends of Seniors, where I'll be volunteering to drive senior citizens to their doctor appointments, or grocery shopping or wherever. Plus, I got my first "assignment" which was pretty exciting. (Omg...when I re-read that sentence, as noble as it may sound....dude...I'm a freaking loser) Anyway, the other thing that made it fantabulous was the fact that I saw my husband and his girlfriend together.  ...more

If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments

It is a biblical line that, sometimes, lovers make fun of saying especially to their partner. I overheard this conversation of two persons, they probably were lovers, when I was passing by the English department. The conversation goes this way: Boy: Sorry, I don't know if I can do it. ...more

Thirty Days.

If I ever get to resurrect my blog, the entire month of September 2009 will not exist.  This fact somehow feels like a failure, a let-down.It isn't that I didn't do anything of note that month; that I didn't have awkward things happen or notice snide sociological happenings or that my son just was an unremarkable baby.  It's that too much happened, too many things in too short of time....more

I feel the need in speed~

Here’s the deal; the facts are in. At least 50% of marriages don’t make it—which, if you’re a gambler, is slightly better than a crap shoot – this is what I told RadarOnline.com, when asked for a comment about Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom's marriage. ...more