Last week Daddy called me a little after I had left from one of my usual visits. He was very upset because he had received a phone call from a collection agency. WHAT!!!!! That was not good. Daddy pays his bills the minute they hit his doorway and I do too, and since I am in charge of his finances right now we both were very confused. It was a medical claim. First of all we are confused because Daddy has good regular insurance and Medicare which most generally covers everything except for an occasional deductible. We also have had his mail forw...more
Given the state of our broken health care system, I feel like we doctors don’t have much right to ask our patients how to behave, since most of us are falling far short of how our patients would prefer we behaved. As a patient, you may feel rushed, unheard, and condescended upon. You may feel that your intuition is neglected and your questions aren’t answered. If you feel this way, let me apologize on behalf of my profession. SORRY!...more
There's some unsettling new data about a likely link between infants and toddlers being exposed to anesthesia and having cognitive struggles and/or learning disabilities. The theory is that general anesthesia can cause these deficits during "critical periods" of brain development....more
As an MD, I’ve watched too many of my colleagues yank out anti-depressant samples every time a patient starts to cry. So on behalf of physicians everywhere, let me apologize for our trigger-happy prescription-writing behavior. I don’t mean to diminish the pain someone who is depressed might experience. But tears are healthy. Sadness doesn’t always need treatment. And it’s important to remember that the pain muscle and the joy muscle are the same. If you can’t feel one, you won’t feel the other....more
I have been working hard at trying to keep several truths in the forefront of my mind and soul. These truths are that my husband loves me. My husband is so very unabashedly shameful and sorry for the pain he has caused me and has tried every way and every day to show how sorry he is and how much he loves me.
The painful truth that I am trying to keep OUT of my heart and soul are the facts that while I forgave him, I am still deeply and terribly hurt by his actions. I am having a very hard time letting go of the pain. I walk around in a numb fog wrestling with my thoughts and pain....more