You’re Just Spending Your Time On Something Else

You do have time to work on your projects. You’re just spending it on something else.Which is fine.Be aware that you are making the choice and be clear about your decision. No one is victimizing you. No one else is in charge of your time.“But I have a boss! And kids! And a spouse!” I know. Me, too. And there’s the animals and the paperwork and the garden and the basement and the church and the family and the car repair and the dinner party and the charity event and the choir concert and the business to run. And that’s just this weekend....more

When Daddy's Away, Mommy Just Might Lose her Frickin' Mind!

My husband has been gone the past few days and it’s always stressful when he’s away.  I don’t really have much to complain about, I know there are mommies all over the world that have it worse and it’s certainly been worse for me in the past.  Hubby is only 30 minutes away but he “gets” to stay in a hotel (and not see us) for 3 full days which is nothing compared to the one week a month he was gone while we lived in Ireland or the 13 straight days he was gone when my daughter was a few m...more

Watching a 2 Year Old Run and Watching a Mother Run a 5 K.

Yun is visiting a friend. They have a two year old running about. The boy is running from one room to another, taking down the CDs, picking up the toys, hiding in the closet,and  shouting on the stairs. However, in the end, no disasters or dramas occur. Yun watches the boy ,with great joy and ease ,  doing what a 2 years old does....more