“We Go Together……..

…like Ramma lamma lamma Ka dinga da dinga dong Remembered forever like Shoo-wop sha whada whadda Yippidy boom da boom Chang chang changity chang shoo bop That’s the way it should be Waooo Yeah!”These Kids Rock! They really do!...more
A very good time ! A day to always remember :)more

Why You Will Never Be Happy

When you have a baby who has Down syndrome you find out that almost everyone in the world has a cousin with Down syndrome and they all work at a grocery store.And they’re all incredibly happy.You know, I hope most people are happy. I hope all kids are happy. And babies.Are people as a species so unhappy that my now five-year old daughter reading library books on the couch stands out in such contrast?...more
Excellent post and so true. I totally agree that there's more we want for our children than just ...more

Special Speak: Managing the World of Language

Commanding the physical world occupies much of my time. Washing hands, cleaning vegetables, vacuuming, picking up clothes, and all day long putting things "just so." My son and I don't always see the world in the same way. I've got a lot to learn to communicate effectively with him. His command of the world takes a twist he sees no reason to justify. To him, licking the window on the bus might be the greatest thing ever. Why not? ...more

A True Story about Handicaps

Once upon a time, there was a magical little girl. She brightened the room when she tumbled in and proceeded to share fierce hugs and sloppy kisses with everyone without hesitation for who they were, what they looked like, and what titles and possessions they owned. All shared equally in her unconditional love....more

Expand Your Understanding of Down Syndrome

Before my son was born, I knew nothing about it. I couldn't even recall ever meeting a person with Down syndrome. Then, everything changed. Rather than pointing you to charts about physical features and learning abilities, let's make an effort to really understand, even a little bit, about Down syndrome and the families it touches. ...more
WomenTricks It is so simple and beautiful to understand others. It is where we break down walls ...more

Taking on the Challenge: Would You Leave a Down Syndrome Baby With the Surrogate?

A Down syndrome child is left behind by an Australian couple after a surrogate gives birth to twins. Given a choice, which would we choose? Do we really know? Perhaps we are not free to judge. ...more
Shellireads The parents did know they were having twins; one child having Down Syndrome. They ...more

Women, Girls, and Special Needs Shine in John Legend Video: But Media Must Get the Whole Story Right

Special needs, cancer survivors, and all shapes and sizes of women and girls shine beautiful in the new video by John Legend, "You & I (Nobody In The World)." The melody is touching; the images will probably make you cry. I did. So what in the world could go wrong with a video like this? ...more

Music, Man

Music tames the beast - meaning me. The insanity of daily life is drowned out when music comes on the scene. B.C., (before children), my music ruled. I spent hours making those cassette tape D.J. - mixes of my favorite tunes. All catered to certain mood, the songs gave me the perfect groove to workout or the rhythm to beat off a broken heart. ...more

IEP Success

IEP? Are you ready? The big tool to carve an educational program for special children is the IEP - Individualized Education Program. Education is a big task; figuring out what to do with special needs kids in the educational system is gigantic. ...more

An Old Man, A Mutt, and a Funeral: Taming the Wake of Voices in My Head

Ahead of schedule, I smugly buckled my youngest child . The dog jumped in behind. It was time for a physical for the four-legged member of our family. Heart worm, flea and tick season were on their way. After the appointment, I’d sweep by school to pick up my daughter, who was at the Humane Society volunteering and whisk her off to her ball game. If all went well, everyone would get to their destination — right on time (or even before)....more