Emotional Menopause? Been There, Done That

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Getting Over it: 7 Simple Ways to Move on

Everyone has gone through difficult times at some part of their life. It may even seem more paramount now with the current economic environment. Or perhaps that has nothing to do with your troubles. Maybe you cannot get past some events from a difficult childhood or experiences later in life that left a scar or two.Your past experiences do not have to keep you from enjoying your life. But you do have to make an effort to release your anguish....more

I locked myself in the bathroom and cried….

I’ve written before about how tough I can find it to keep Poppet still and happy for 4 1/2 hours at a time (even though it is just once a week). The other day I hit my breaking point. She had done so well for the first 2 hours of services, and on the hour-long break she was full of energy and really tired. I tried so hard to get her to sleep for the other 1 1/2 hours, but she just couldn’t seem to fall asleep. The same old pattern emerged. Put her down, screaming, pick her up, screaming, try to nurse her, screaming, try to cuddle, screaming….....more

Never Give Up - 'The Power of the Mind'

‘Damm, life is hard at times’, I would sometimes say.  My dad would say to me... Elaine who said life was meant to be easy? and I thought actually that is very true.I have discovered that many people live in a lopsided world.  What do I mean by that... let me explain my view point.There are two opposing sides to everything; black and white, night and day, good and bad, warm and cold... Where would Ying be without Yang. ...more

Expressions

                  Expressing our feelings can be the hardest thing to do for some of us. We look for validation from others that we are here and we are heard. Sometimes the validation that we receive is not the type that we expected. That is why it is extremely important to express exactly what you want especially when it comes to relationships....more

Annual at the OB/GYN

I had my annual check-up at the OB/GYN.  How fabulous to be reminded that I have HPV, as probably attained from my husband. I believe this diagnosis only came up a year or so ago.  I again asked my doctor how long HPV can remain dormant.  She didn't really have an answer. I was with my husband for almost 20 years....could it remain dormant that long?!  I am 99.9% sure that he never cheated, but I admit that a few questions percolate in my brain. ...more

Your Daily Reading: “Living Wide Awake” Practice Letting Go 3-10-12

Now is the time to turn your attention to working as hard as you play.Combining integrity with business acumen drives your motivation and power toward your long term goals.Opposing Energies: anxiety, frustration, hot-tempered, obstinate, self-obsessionEmotion has no place in business, so guard from being overly cool and distant, as this can put off opportunities.You can avoid those stubborn moments by observing in silence and utilizing flexibility in your thinking....more

Anger: Cleansing Squall or Hurricane?

Anger is the emotional energy within each of us that rises up when something needs to change. If you act on the need to create change, your anger can be channeled effectively; but it’s not redirected to something effective, your frustration will build, sometimes to hurricane force.  Anger that is allowed to get out of control is as destructive as a hurricane, but anger that is expressed in healthy wa...more

The Breakdown of a Breakup

Just recently, I had the opportunity to interview songwriter, producer and instrumentalist Terry Radigan about her new album, the Breakdown of a Breakup. Terry wrote all the songs on the album about three years ago following the end of her twenty-year marriage. As someone who writes about divorce, it was fascinating for me to talk to Terry and to understand that while I probably couldn't pen a song, writing in any form is therapeutic if you allow your writing to be honest. ...more

Mood Contagion

 I wrote this post recently on my blog and it has produced so many comments as people ask, almost in frustration: 'what if I am all three. what then? To which I respond, the key is to know yourself, so you can love others better. See what you think....more