My Super Sensory Orgasm Inducing Feet

I like being barefoot. I always have. I love the feel of my feet on tile, slate, cold marble and polished wood. Even rough wood—just no splinters of course. I love the feel of my feet sinking in the sand as the waves wash over them. I love the feel of my feet in soft moist soil. Grass, the soft kind—I love my feet on that. I love tearing up the grass with my toes sometimes. I love how it feels when my feet try to make sense out of a shag rug, with all the fibers going every which way, my toes trying to figure out which ones to grab....more

The Journey Into BDSM 'Subspace'

Sometimes, you have to allow your sexual journey to flow. Other times, you have to grab it by the balls and say "I'm going to get laid". It was more the latter of those choices when I decided to say "Yes" and get together with [Mostly Harmless]....more
A great read!  People who are into kink function differently in the bedroom...although a lot of ...more

Fetishists, I Want You!

Part of the reason that I blog is because I talk about a lo t of the things people want to hear about or they, themselves, want to talk about but are too afraid to do so. ...more

“Femininity is for Sissies”: or, the Queering of Forced Feminization

When I was working as a professional Domme, I got a fair number of requests from men who want to be “sissified”, “forced” into frilly girly undies and makeup and turned into an “objectified slut”. Sissification is one of those things I encounter often, both in the Femdom scene and the AB/DL scene, and while I love the dresses, I wonder about the intention behind this kink. I find it all kinds of problematic on multiple levels. ...more
Well said. Misogyny still permeates our culture, sometimes in hidden ways.  Come visit my site ...more

The Crimson Chronicles: Episode 3A Not as Easy as It Looks 040413

              Recently, at a gathering, a gentleman, intrigued by what I do, enquired as to how I began my career. Before I could respond, his wife, with a shrug of her shoulders and a toss of her head, said "Well, darling, that's easy: a whip and some chains and anyone can be a dominatrix." With a smile and cold eyes I rejoined: "I agree as far as this: anyone can act like or look like a dominatrix but to be a true dominatrix...that is a rara avis."...more

The Crimson Chronicles: Episode 01 Right from the Start 150313

Mistress RaevenLondon's Dark Secretprofessional dominatrix.sex educator.writer of erotica.fashion stylistHBIC: Raevensclaw Arts UKLondon*Paris*San Francisco*New York Cityclasses.workshops.events. fashion ...more

Feminism, Masculinity, and the Mystique of the Asian Woman

Feminism, Masculinity, and the Mystique of the Asian Woman   In The Asian Mystique, by Sheridan Prasso, Prasso discusses the stereotypes, expectations, and fantasies the Western world has of Asia and, especially, of Asian women....more

Spit, Swallow or ... Sauté?

"What is that?" men ask, horrified, when they see the book. It's a rather demure-looking book, featuring an image of flan on its cover against a warm background. "Natural Harvest," it reads. And to many living in Los Angeles, this is a fine concept. Until you read the subheading: "A collection of semen-based recipes." ...more
Marahh2o, not at all! That book comes up at least once a year.more

College Grads ~ Ready, Set, Shop for your Career Wardrobes ~ Decisions, Decisions ~ Have you heard of Infinity Shoes?

I was an Uptown Girl before there were Uptown Girls. When I was younger, I worked in the Insurance City in Hartford. My BFF from the office and I would take extended lunches, and cruise the best-high end department store in the city, all 11 floors of it on our lunch ‘hour.’ I was Imelda before she was known for her shoe fetish. (Read More) ...more