The Secret Sadness of Being Independent

I was calmly holding it together in the psychologist’s office until he asked, “Are you lonely?” Involuntarily, tears started pouring down my face and I stammered that yes, yes, I was lonely. I made the appointment to talk about how I screwed up every relationship I’d been in, but this revelation was unexpected. I did not return to find out how to fix it....more

Moments with Maisy: Maisy Day at Walt Disney World

Sometimes I have to remind myself to stop rushing around, to look away from whatever virtual screen I'm staring at, to make time to be with Maisy. In a little over two weeks my sweet little Peanut will be turning two, and I will cease to have a baby as she toddles off into the world of Big Kid-dom....more

Man Of The World

From my blog Take It EasyDay 3 of National Blog Posting Month and I'm still here! For today's post I thought I'd share with you a song that has been a favourite of mine since it was released in April 1969. That must have been a good year: Bryan Adams clearly thought so when he wrote Summer Of 69, also a favourite of mine. My song is this:Man Of The World, by Fleetwood Mac...more

You Can Be Anything You Want -- Except a Homemaker

Have you ever watched the show Wife Swap?The premise of the show is that two families switch wives for a week or two in order to see how the other family runs their household. The people that run the show obviously try to match up families that are polar opposites of each other, all in the interest of ratings and explosive confrontations. The country wife goes to the city and vice versa; the rich wife goes to the family who isn't making ends meet, atheist wife to Christian family, etc....more
Good message!!  I have had the best of all worlds - SAHM, worked full time, part time and from ...more

What do you want to be when you grow up?

My Tiny Human is entering the phase in her life when people are asking her what she wants to be when she grows up.Proudly displayed in her Pre-K classroom is her answer: A Big Girl.I mean, it’s a safe guarantee.I remember when I was younger I wanted to be a zoologist; an animator; a trainer at Sea World.Later, when the answer was heavier and mattered I said I wanted to be a high school English teacher. I even went to college for it. I was dedicated....more

Signs of Growing Up

Signs of Growing UpOne day at a time—this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past, for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful that it will be worth remembering. ~ Ida Scott Taylor...more

Goodbye Paci

It seems as if another step of Jack growing up has sneaked up on me.When Jack was born early, he immediately showed a preference to a specific kind of pacifier – the soothie that was given to him in the NICU.As all smart parents do, I immediately ran out and bought a half-dozen of them to have handy around the house. As ALL infants seem to do, he would spit it out only to flail around with his little hands unable to put it back in again....more

The Cat Has Left the Cradle

As my parents were driving me to college so many years ago, my mom said to me "It's not fair that just as children really get interesting, they leave."My mom is not a kid person....more

Are we adults yet?

Me and Liz, being grown ups ...more

How College Made Me a Better Person

We've all heard before that college is a time of growth for most people.  It's the first time in our lives when we're on our own and surrounded by so many people who are completely different from the people we've grown up around.  Each day, we're faced with a hundred decisions we'd never even considered before....more