Last night I was set free of a big cause of pain in my life.I made a decision as a teenager to always 'choose love' above everything else and I have done that too. Problem is, I'm always thinking and worrying about always choosing love and it all stresses me out and causes me pain.Now it hits me, you don't choose love, Love chooses you. You can't add to it or subtract from it. If you love you love. And what comes next, or what came before doesn't matter....more
Are there any Bloghers out there who have written a book? I am trying to get across the line with the final edits. The process while fabulous has been a somewhat lonely one and I can't wait to get back into the moment with the ones I love the most. My memoir titled Enemy Within will be out in May and is a story that tells of love lost and found, hope, happiness and acceptance. Thanks to my sister in law Charlotte who was a calming influence on me recently....more
Well world....I'm finally a mom. Truly a scary thought. I never thought this would happen to me. I mean I have dreamed about becoming a mom since I was 5, literally. If you were to ask me what I wanted to be when I grew up, the answer was always: A MOM. See?...more
Many of you have asked my opinion on this week’s announcement that cancer-stricken Elizabeth Edwards has left her husband, former presidential candidate John Edwards. I covered this story before, as I found it fascinating why some women choose to stay after infidelity....more
Of course women CAN’T have it all! You tell me one person who has absolutely everything! Perfectionism is an illusion of the mind. Today’s Blog post is about the women who try and have it all, and then go into therapy when they realize that it’s virtually impossible. ...more
Most dating problems occur because either the two of you are not compatible or you are not communicating enough. Other problems may be because the two of you just are not right for each other.
Communication is the most important thing when you are dating. Most problems occur because the two of you are having difficulty expressing your feelings or you aren’t being clear about what you want.
When you both communicate with each other properly it is clear to both of you if you are compatible and have the same likes and dislikes.