How to Overcome Your New Blogger Fears

I have been struggling. Struggling with whether I know enough to blog, whether I'm good enough to blog, whether I can achieve the goals I have floating around in my head. Today I'm saying STOP. I'm sitting with my insecurity and I'm letting it go. Instead I'm reminding myself of what I can do to keep moving forward, to keep enjoying this new space I've created on the web. ...more
Thanks so much! You never know how people will respond when you're open with your own ...more

Today is both Insecure Writer's Support Group day and day six of #NaBloPoMo--I combined posts.

Let's combine the blog hops today, shall we? ...more

The Ugly Duckling Complex: Dating Made Difficult

  You don't feel as attractive as the people standing around you. You don't level up with them as far as your sense of style goes....more

Can Your Partner Have Friends of the Opposite Sex?

In recent interview for Stella Magazine, recording artist Mary J. Blige said: “All females for me, all guys for him. There’s none of that, ‘Oh, that’s my female friend. Oh, that’s my guy friend.’ No. Not in a marriage, I’ve never seen that work.”...more
I see a problem speaking from experience not all female can be trustworthy when come to your ...more

I Wish I Had Grown Up Hearing Women Say They Loved Their Bodies

I Wish I Had Grown Up Hearing Women Say They Loved Their Bodies Just some thoughts for you....more

Working Towards Confidence

After I published a post last week on the importance of asking for what you want, I heard from a lot of you about your own experiences in the workplace. I heard from ladies in London, Paris, Bucharest, and Australia who told me about things that they wanted but didn't know how to ask for, or maybe were afraid to ask for. ...more

7 Ways to Overcome Insecurity

Insecurity is as common as a cold. So many of us wander through life saddled with the effects of damaging childhoods, traumatic relationships or events and subsequent personal shortcomings; all of which can burden us with a lifetime of endless self-doubt.7 Ways to Spot Insecurity1. Defensiveness - when a person feels he or she isn't equal to others, a common way to respond is by putting others down, and being easily offended....more

Women Have Eyes, Too. Why Can't We Check Out Guys?

I loathe the phrase “Men are visual creatures”.It’s a phrase used to excuse things from excessive porn watching to infidelity. It makes women wear things they’d never wear and excuses the lack of reciprocity when it comes to things they find visual appealing. It says that women don’t care about looks while men do and shames women who care all at the same time. I believe women are just as visual as men, but our socialization has pushed us to downplay those things while our insecurities bubble up with each photo or video in our newsfeeds and timelines....more
Great post Shanta. Yes you are a writer - and a good writer too. And I look - oh baby I look. I ...more

You Are Enough

Mike Robbins...more

Intimidations' Mask

This last week I have learned much from watching myself respond or not, to people who were, shall we say, not in their best grounded state of being. I am being extremely diplomatic , in describing them; where in the comfort of my own home, I have let my mouth wander...I don't get intimidated easily, in fact one of the things I have learned in my business is, that money, power, influence are nothing to someone who is hurting or struggling, and we all feel things that are painful. Vulnerability holds no affluence, it taps us all on the shoulder asking for some ~real. Some raw....more