He Cheated -- Now What?

They were together over 20 years when he confessed his infidelity. The other woman was carrying his child and she was putting pressure on him to leave his wife. This is how their marriage survived. ...more
I walked through the same exact thing, and I chose to stay and fight.  It was the best decision ...more

Jenny Sanford, "Hero" of the Spurned Sisterhood?

“The cheated-upon spouses of the world have a new hero, and her name is Jenny Sanford.”  ...more

My heart goes out to everyone that becomes a victim of an affair.  I believe it's one of ...more

Ladies, kindly STFU already

As most people close to me know, I have a verrrry testy relationship with marriage. Some aspects of deeply trouble me: its religious foundations, its patriarchal history of a woman being ceded by one man to another, even — I’ll admit it — its permanence. For me, marriage represents a certain end to a narrative possibility....more

It reminds me of something my partner Michael was saying about a catching up with a Facebook ...more

Jackson and Sanford: Consider the Women

by Laura Baudo Sillerman ...more