Neither of us understood at the time that homosexuality, like heterosexuality, is at the very core of your essential being. It doesn't go away. And yes, during our marriage, we did have sex. It was mechanical. It felt wrong. It was like a chore. It was not intimate in any way. Oh, I had orgasms from time to time, especially once I hit my thirties. But I could also give myself orgasms, if you know what I'm sayin'.
Josh Weed is a husband, a father, a member of the Mormon Church -- and he's gay. Earlier this month, he and his wife coauthored a post on his blog about how they have made their marriage work these past ten years. This is a summary of their story, as well as a roundup of the different aspects of this story that concern the blogosphere.