Four Things You Can Do This Weekend for an Even Better Relationship

Sometimes “working on your relationship” just seems like too much, well, work.  There is a perception that it takes grand gestures and deep talks to improve things on the homefront or make a relationship strong.  However, when it comes right down to it, little things usually make a big impact too, maybe an even bigger impact if they are done consistently....more

Is Compromise a Relationship Killer?

com·pro·mise:   To compromise is to make a deal between different parties where each party gives up part of their demand. ...more

You Are Never Powerless

I used to be married to a man that drank too much and slept around.  I honestly believe the most cruel and hurtful thing a person can do to their spouse is to not coming home without calling.  My ex did that a lot.  However, that habit of his caused me to develop an awkward relationship with a woman over the phone who would change my life....more
Yes all so true...and very reminiscent of some things I went through with mine.  I took two ...more

To Fruition: Manifest the Desires of Your Heart – Weekly Affirmation – Jan. 22 – Giving

To Fruition: Manifest the Desires of Your Heart - Weekly Affirmation - Jan. 22 - GivingAs I read and reflected about this week's To Fruition: Manifest the Desires of Your Heart Affirmation, I initially felt a tiny bit smug...  I thought to myself, "Giving, eh? Yep, got that one under my belt. I give ALL the time." Then I got this overwhelming feeling... Maybe I didn't have this giving thing all the way down pat. I mean, sure I give, but my giving has become somewhat routine......more

You Don’t Have to Let Your Limiting Beliefs Define You

I’m going to give you two words and I’d like you to pause for a moment and see how they make you feel.  Ready??Limiting BeliefHeavy, huh?  They kind of stick right in the middle of my chest.  If I’m really quiet and pay attention I also notice the muscles on the right side of the back of my neck tweak a little.  Ick....more

Why "Three Little Birds"?

Why "Three Little Birds" for this blog?...more

Is This My Soulmate?

It’s a question I get asked often.  How do I know?  Is this is my soulmate?  There are probably as many answers to that question as there are askers.  However, for me, part of what helped me define my personal definition of a soulmate was the experience of the moment when I realized I was married to a man who wasn’t mine....more

Dating After a Divorce

 Dear Lisa,...more

Expectations vs. Boundaries

I was recently complaining to my husband about they way I overheard a mutual acquaintance talk to his wife.  It made my toes curl, literally.  I was so irritated by the disrespect I could feel the hair on the back of my neck start to get prickly.  Truth of the matter is, this guy is always like that with his wife, so I don’t know why I was so shocked....more

How Can I Get Him to See it My Way?

Dear Lisa,...more