Witch Notes: Law of Attraction, 15 Nov 2015 #NaBloPoMo

I find the Law of Attraction confounding. I understand that my thoughts create my reality. I’m a witch. Of course my thoughts create my reality. An empath as well, I experience everything intensely. Everything is pure emotional resonance. All at once. How do I simply notice it all without feeling in? Because I think that’s where I get in trouble, the whole, feeling in part. It’s easy to get stuck in someone else’s emotional resonance without realizing that, in doing so, you’re activating the Law of Attraction....more

What You Should Require in Exchange for Giving Your Heart to a Man

If I could impart one piece of advice to women about relationships it would be simple and it would be this:If you’re going to hand over your heart to someone, don’t settle for anything less than being worshipped in return.  Absolute adoration is a requirement.  Nothing less will do....more
Lisa you couldnt be more true..You made so many very salient points and everything you said are ...more

What’s on Your Schedule Ten Days From Now?

A couple of weeks ago I got myself all worked up over some stuff.   I’m not talking about a few minutes or even a couple of days worth of worked up.  I’m talking more than a week.  I was in a vibe flow that was pretty intense and it wasn’t pleasant.  At some point mid-vibe breakdown I even thought to myself, “Lisa, you are feeling all of this pretty intensely right now.  This is going to come back at you and you aren’t going to like it when it does.”Bingo!...more

Meet Mr. and Mrs. Perfect

Somebody asked me recently if I believed a perfect relationship was possible and if so what that would look like.  The answer to the question is yes, I do believe perfect relationships are possible.  In fact, I’ve seen a lot of them, and none of them are exactly the same....more

Why You Should Be a Spiritual Hedonist

There is an age old question I tend to ask myself frequently.“Is it my business, someone else’s business, or God’s business?”...more

The First Rule of Relationships

A few weeks ago my kiddo was staying with my sister.  Every time we pick him up when he spends the weekend away I always hold my breath a little when I get the “behavior report” for the weekend.  You just never know how that’s going to go.  Kids will do the darndest things when they are staying with Aunties who spoil them rotten....more

Who the Hell Do I Really Want to Be?

The brain spends about 80% of it’s conscious resources remembering and cataloging things and events.  It’s a little bit like your computer putting things in cache.  When you visit a website your computer has cached, what you see on your screen may or may not be current.  To be exact, your computer stored a version of that site from a previous visit.  It makes for much quicker loading.  Your web browser doesn’t have to deal with the details.  It can just sort of load around the periphery....more

Why Not Taking Care of Myself is Lazy and Selfish

I don’t know how to explain how much effort it takes to keep me upright and moving forward this time of year. For a girl who clearly suffers from Seasonal Affective Disorder, Washington State is a rough place to be in the Winter months. I know I should probably change my story about how I fair in the winter months, and some years I do better. However, generally the winters I do well involve quite a bit of travel, and for reasons out of anyone’s control, there has been no travel this winter. So, without elaborating too much, I’ll just say, I’m more than a little sluggish right now....more

Four Things You Can Do This Weekend for an Even Better Relationship

Sometimes “working on your relationship” just seems like too much, well, work.  There is a perception that it takes grand gestures and deep talks to improve things on the homefront or make a relationship strong.  However, when it comes right down to it, little things usually make a big impact too, maybe an even bigger impact if they are done consistently....more

Is Compromise a Relationship Killer?

com·pro·mise:   To compromise is to make a deal between different parties where each party gives up part of their demand. ...more