Letter to Glo-Worm

Dear Glo-Worm,It’s our last day together today. I’m going to go and pick you up from daycare in a few minutes, but first I wanted to express some thoughts to you.I know that my words on the page aren’t the same as the sound of my voice, and that virtual hugs aren’t the same as cuddles. I know that there’s a chance we’ll see each other again after this, and there’s a chance that we’ll both go on with our lives. But I couldn’t say goodbye without writing you this letter – I hope you get to read it someday....more

If I could write a letter...

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