I Did Not Marry My Best Friend

    15 years ago today I did not marry my best friend.  You read that right. Read more:             http://suckathomemom.blogspot.com/2013/09/i-did-not-marry-my-best-friend.html?m=1...more

Top 10 Reasons Why I Would Choose to Be a Lipstick Lesbian (although it’s not a choice)!

Have you seen the recent Durex advert?  It talks about how wonderful sex is and about meaningful relationships.  It made me think about how lucky I am that I don’t need to worry about condoms in order to have sex.  The advert also inspired me to reflect on all the positives to being a lesbian. I have always been delighted that I am a lesbian, but I have never articulated exactly why it is so great.  To be honest it is hard to put into words how wonderful it is.  Nonetheless I have tried to narrow it down to a top 10 list: ...more
don't think you know what a lipstick lesbian is - all the things you list are benefits of just ...more

Friday Find ~ Find the Time

Friday Find ~ Find the Time  There IS time, you can...more

Making Better Choices

We have all made some bad choices in our lives and hopefully learned from them. Sometimes we continue to make the same bad choices. At what point do you stop the madness? For me that journey started three years ago....more

10 Best and Worst Things About Dating A Crossdresser

I'm having a little...well, crisis is too strong a word, but let's say I'm having a bad patch this morning. I got my period back after many, many months, which not only signals that my body is getting back to "normal" but that Rose is beginning to wean. Since I have a love/hate relationship with breastfeeding, it's both a good and bad thing. The bottom line is that the hormone overload is making me emotional, it's making me second-guess myself, and it's making me neurotic. ...more
You know, LoriQ, I don't think it's too bad ;) I love my husband's "male" side just as much as ...more

Family and Dysfunction

To Date or Not To Date???

Why we love a great old fashioned chick flick!

 How many times have you sat with popcorn in one hand and a box of tissues in the other, watching a tear-jerking epic romance? Wonder why you love them so much?You can thank your mirror neurons....more

Guns n’ Florals

Unfortunately for me one of my best friends lives half way across Canada, but we hardly let that stop us from keeping an extremely close relationship. Not only do we talk on the phone every single day, we send each other 'care packages' every now and then filled with little gifts. Trinkets, magnets, mugs, food, joke underwear, soap. Little things. But they are all so meaningful because they were picked especially for one another. They are never extravagant or over done. But sweet, thoughtful gifts we bought and collected over the course of weeks or months....more

10 Things Not To Do in Front of Your Man...(or woman!)

       When we are in relationships we love to share everything with our boo, but sometimes ladies, we share way to damn much. I may get some slack for this list but here it is anyway......more
@kimskitchensink What I find awful is your hateful attitude and YOUR shaming of the opinions of ...more