8 Surefire Signs my Husband Needs Sex!

My husband and me six weeks after we had our last daughter....more

Long Marriage = More Adventurous Sex?

I met my friend Mistress Justine for lunch on Friday. That's not her real name, but it should be. She and her husband, Raoul (also a pseudonym) have been married 15 years and the last time we spoke Justine admitted their sex life had stagnated. They'd just gone through a major house remodel, career remodels and are raising two high energy kids....more

Would You Consider Having a Threesome After Marriage?

1988 was a banner year for me.I was separately invited by two male college friends to engage in a ménage à trois with them and their wives. I was never flirtatious with or attracted to these men. I didn't have a tongue bolt, a belly ring, pierced nipples or tattoos, which is how I pictured a sexual libertine. I wore button-down shirts, penny loafers and, on occasion, glasses that made me look like Sally Jesse Raphael with more hair....more
Don Draper recently had a threesome with his wife, Megan, and an actress friend on "Mad Men".  ...more

Why I Had to Ravish my Husband

Marriage Advice from a Wife Dominatrix: Last weekend I wanted to eat my husband alive. His eyes were more cerulean blue than a ‘Sconset sky on a bike-ride Sunday. His pecs were glorious mounds of muscled filet mignon and just looking at his wrists and hands, both surgeon-pianist delicate and stevedore strong, had me feeling decidedly … how shall we say, damp?...more

Is 'Scandal' Ruining Your Sex Life?

I just discovered the television show Scandal on Netflix. Yes, I know that I’m coming (pun intended) to the Oliva Pope/President Fitzgerald party waaaaaay late. But I’ve come to the party with a vengeance. I’ve managed to watch all 40+ episodes that have aired to date in the last six weeks. ...more
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Nurturing Your Relationship When You Have Children

So, I planned on doing this post for Valentine’s Day, but since we’ve had a lot going on here at home, I’m a few days late. But… better late than never, right? As I was writing this post, I was thinking that there are already hundreds of articles and such out there that speak of how to keep the magic in your relationship. Most of them probably even have some good advice. However, many of the typical relationship tips and tricks are a little harder to pull off when you have kids. Meet your husband at the door after work wearing just a martini?...more

Marriage and the surprising sex stats

Married people are still having fun in bed according to Tara Parker-Pope's new book For Better: The Science of a Good Marriage. She interviews biologists, neuroscientists, psychologists, and sociologists, to understand the science behind love, sex and marital bonds. ...more

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