National Masturbation Month: Self-Love is a Celebration

Ultimate safe sex, improved cardiovascular and pelvic floor health, prevention of prostate gland and yeast infections, eased menstrual cramping, release endorphins, and relieved stress.  Where does one find this wonder of modern life? Could be right at your fingertips....more
Nothing wrong with self love. Or trying to reach new plateaus of satisfaction.more

Product Review: Don Wands Glass Wand Jade/White Helix

Don Juan doesn’t hold a candle to this incredibly pretty Don Wands Glass Wand. The mesmerizing DNA-like jade and white swirling helix, the medical-grade Pyrex material, the realistic size and shape of the shaft and head, the proportional dimensions and the ultra-smooth finish… my oh my!...more
Now that was an informative article. I've sold sex toys in the past, but you made me want to go ...more

Making Sex Toys: A Factory Tour

If you love sex toys enough, eventually you will begin to wonder who makes them and where they come from. Is there some sort of a magical dildo-sculpting fairy who furiously creates boatloads of dongs for our enjoyment? Or do youths in the third world spend their childhood hand-painting realistic veins on our double-sided dildos for pennies?...more

The 5 Best Dildos for Size Queens

Here at Spicy Gear, we love toys and genitals of all shapes and sizes– and don’t consider one size to be better than another. That being said, sexually satisfying a size queen can certainly take some extra oomph in the size department. Never fear, lovers of ample proportions and immense insertables– we’ve made it super easy on you by vanquishing the puny contenders and selecting the top five best dildos for size queens:...more

That's not exactly what I meant by a boob job, honey

I was reading Dan Savage's advice column the other day. Savage, if you haven't heard of him, gives advice on all things sexual, and even lots of things I wouldn't consider sexy, but somebody does. It's not for the naive. Or maybe it is if you need to get up to speed....more
Dolores Derrian It's certainly a complex issue. What I gleaned from the letter is that he's more ...more

The Truth About Using Sex Toys After Pregnancy

A while back, we talked about whether or not it was safe to use sex toys during pregnancy. But even after pregnancy, toys are a great way to take care of yourself. Better yet, they can even help you get back into being intimate with your partner. Whether you're using them alone or having your partner use them on you, here's a brief guide to using sex toys after giving birth....more
Read this blog about the visual appearance of your punani and pilates.. Interesting ...more

Dogs & Their Tricks

I can understand being moderately upset by someone else’s actions but when you look at the history of your relationship, you really shouldn’t be surprised.  Sometimes people have less concern for how their decisions will affect other people...I suppose those are the people you should avoid.[all this over a missed opportunity for an afternoon of crazy sex though if I’m being honest, I’m certain he just wouldn’t be able to come through on the promise of lasting an entire afternoon]...more

My Lack of Self-Seduction

It is no big secret that I currently sell sex toys for a living. I like the opportunity that it affords me to find things that might help people get their rocks off. The one thing that I have come to realize is that people want to know what you like; what gets you off. Maybe they think they're doing it wrong. Maybe they only want to talk to someone who fucking gets it.But you know my secret? I suck at masturbating....more


How To: Hands-Free Masturbation

Here’s a little known fact: when people say they’re living the dream, the dream is, of course, hands-free masturbation....more