That's not exactly what I meant by a boob job, honey

I was reading Dan Savage's advice column the other day. Savage, if you haven't heard of him, gives advice on all things sexual, and even lots of things I wouldn't consider sexy, but somebody does. It's not for the naive. Or maybe it is if you need to get up to speed....more
Dolores Derrian It's certainly a complex issue. What I gleaned from the letter is that he's more ...more

The Truth About Using Sex Toys After Pregnancy

A while back, we talked about whether or not it was safe to use sex toys during pregnancy. But even after pregnancy, toys are a great way to take care of yourself. Better yet, they can even help you get back into being intimate with your partner. Whether you're using them alone or having your partner use them on you, here's a brief guide to using sex toys after giving birth....more
Read this blog about the visual appearance of your punani and pilates.. Interesting ...more

Dogs & Their Tricks

I can understand being moderately upset by someone else’s actions but when you look at the history of your relationship, you really shouldn’t be surprised.  Sometimes people have less concern for how their decisions will affect other people...I suppose those are the people you should avoid.[all this over a missed opportunity for an afternoon of crazy sex though if I’m being honest, I’m certain he just wouldn’t be able to come through on the promise of lasting an entire afternoon]...more

My Lack of Self-Seduction

It is no big secret that I currently sell sex toys for a living. I like the opportunity that it affords me to find things that might help people get their rocks off. The one thing that I have come to realize is that people want to know what you like; what gets you off. Maybe they think they're doing it wrong. Maybe they only want to talk to someone who fucking gets it.But you know my secret? I suck at masturbating....more

How To Teach Teenaged Girls About Masturbation

Why should parents teach teen girls about masturbation? It can save their future marriage or at least help them have fun on the way. Girls who don’t learn about their sexuality early in adolescence are more likely to confuse their own emotional need for intimacy with their physical sexual feelings of desire. ...more
So true...equality and satisfaction :)more


How To: Hands-Free Masturbation

Here’s a little known fact: when people say they’re living the dream, the dream is, of course, hands-free masturbation....more

Buying Your First Vibrator: A Beginner's Guide

From Hitachi Wands to Jack Rabbits, the world has provided us with a wide array of toys to choose from. But where does one start? This is a beginner's guide to vibrators covering the different types, speeds, sizes, and price ranges among them. ...more
Great post, thanks for the guidance.  I didn't know the pocket rockets were the most sold on the ...more

Masturbation: The White Elephant in the Room

Being my normal bookworm self, I was reading a book Hooking Up (there are plenty of books out there but I don't recommend this one) and it was talking about how humiliated the author was about saying she masturbated and I realized holy shit, this is a real problem. I used to be the same exact same way....more

Positive Vibrator Use: Don't Make It Weird

 Once when I was in college, my roommate had a friend over who was something of a busybody. As this girl walked past my bookshelf to use the bathroom, she opened up a box I had on my shelf completely unprompted and slammed it shut immediately with a horrified look on her face....more