When Family Members Get Competitive.

Dear Mouthy Housewives,I have a three year-old girl that's polite, (mostly) well behaved, and interacts well with other kids. My husband and I work very hard to instill good values. But she is three and certainly has her moments. The problem is that whenever my SIL comes over with her 3 year-old son, she always comments on how "easy" my daughter is and how her son is so much more difficult. It frustrates me that she constantly tries to make a competition out of our children. How can I gently remind her that it's not harder OR easier, it's just different?...more