Historically speaking, one of my big must-haves when I'm dating is that it's really important to me to date someone who has their own interests besides The Relationship. I dated a lot of guys who didn't have their own things, so it was a pressure on me because I have a lot of things, you know? I'm all for including my significant other and doing things together whenever possible, but if they've got nothing of their own it can be smothering and pressure-filled not-fun.