If you want a fresh look at connecting, check out Diversity at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPcGy77Gru8&NR=1 it is worth 7 minutes of your time. ...more

You Are the Only One Who Knows. . .

Your extremely personal and specific answers to these questions will help you live the life you imagine: What exactly do you dream of for yourself? When exactly will you get what you dream of for yourself? What are the workable actions you will take to get what you dream of for yourself? What specifically is keeping you from your dream? from my home blog at: http://allwaysoptions.blogspot.com ...more

Your Own Heartbeat

Master Po: Close your eyes. What do you hear?Young Caine: I hear the water, I hear the birds.Po: Do you hear your own heartbeat?Caine: No.Po: Do you hear the grasshopper that is at your feet?Caine: Old man, how is it that you hear these things?Po: Young man, how is it that you do not? ...more

Good Morning Old Glory

A beautiful reason to celebrate America's birthday: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOoZV8yBs4o&feature=related ...more

The G Word

What is the gap between what you love and what you are doing right now? If there is no gap, then there is no problem. If you would like to do less of what you have been doing and more of what you love, there is a way. . ...more


Some people meditate.Some people exercise. Some people pray. Some people visualize.Some people have food, drink, tobacco, drugs or sex. Some people travel.Some people create.Some people avoid thinking about it altogether. Some people read, watch tv or go to a movie. Some people sleep.Some people cry.Some people lean on others.Some people use a combination of these. ...more

Ready, Set, Test Yourself

Remember taking timed tests in high school, for a job, for a license or other exams? Think your test taking days are over? Hah! Think you have what it takes to concentrate and do well?Can I trust you to keep your own score?? If you have literally one minute take this quick test at: http://www.break.com/index/awareness-test.html ...more

You Want it All

Spring is an optimum time to solve a challenge(s).  If you have a change you would like to make in your life, write down your goal.  It is important that it is specific, achievable, on a time table and written down clearly.  Next plan out several action steps that will bridge where you are now with where you want to be.  Confirm that you are realisitically able to complete your action steps daily.  Consistency is key.  It takes 21 days of consistent action to form a new habit.  Focus on and read your goal at different times twice a day.  Clarity moves into focus which moves int ...more

Brand New Relationship - The First Three Months

OK, I should totally be writing this *next* Thursday, because my relationship turns 3 months on April 9th. But I guess I'm actually feeling pretty confident about it getting there just fine. So that's new. ...more

So i've been dating this guy for a couple of months now and everything is fantastic. After a ...more

Ex-Files: Should you cut sling load and drive on?

There are two options after a break-up: remain friends, or move forward without them. The most successful option has been to remain distant for a period of time, licking wounds and recovering from the break-up, and leaving the option of a platonic relationship or rekindling romance in the future. But throw in new boyfriends, old ones, social scenes, and the plethora of communication tools vaaialble today ("rejected from 7 different techlogies," anyone?), it's not so black and white like we would hope. ...more

Thanks for the comment! =) I believe there is some encouragement from women to have a ...more