5 Reasons Why It's Better to Talk than Text

After a few recent stories from my awesome girls, I am finally putting fingers to keyboard and giving you the top 5 reasons why talk is almost always better than text. By text I mean SMS, Facebook message or any kind of chat function on an app (yes like Tinder). What the #$% does that mean? Texting is a woefully inadequate method of communication....more

Dating Multiple People - Part of My Tinder Story

Ask any dating expert, as in real “experts” other than me, because you should not be here for advice, they will say the key to successfully dating online and potentially meeting your match is to compare and contrast multiple people in real time by pitting them against each other to gage what you like and what you don't, versus what qualities are important against those that aren't. This is fact, however, just because I've stated it does not mean I'm either for or against this concept, not am I convinced that this type of dating works....more

Never Ask Someone Else to Write Your Online Dating Profile!

When you're a Ghost Writer, you often wish you hadn't agreed to let someone else take credit for YOUR brilliant, original words.   But are people ever sorry they asked YOU to ghost write for them?  I think my obnoxious divorcee neighbor wishes she could take back that fateful day when she asked me to compose her online dating profile.  Listen:Lydia: I just got my eyes and boobs done.Me:  Done? I didn’t realize you were born with incomplete sets?...more

Online Dating: Do's, Don'ts, and Maybes

Getting "back out there" is never easy.  Many of us marrieds become so thankful we don't have to be immersed in the dating scene.  It's one thing when you're 20 and the world is wide open to you, but it's a completely different ballgame when you're 40-something, have children, jobs, lives, and any suitable dating candidate has to fit into to all that, not the other way around.  Whatever your previous dating or marital experiences, chances are you're a bit jaded at this point....more

How to Make Your Online Dating Profile Stand Out from The Crowd

Online dating is now bigger than ever. That's great because what was once niche is now mainstream. You've got tons of options to look at when entering the online dating arena. However, it has also become a competitive market. That means you need to work harder to get yourself noticed....more


I hate photos that have  been professionally taken.  I especially hate the ones with the jacket slung over the shoulder.  I dislike the one of the man in his favorite easy chair that is a bit raggy.  ...more


from what I've seen of my fellow men, I can see why you hold the views you wrote.  you left out ...more


Be safe and follow the confidential rules until you are sure you are not talking to a creep. I ...more