This date is courtesy of our beloved I am walking up to the door and am greeted by a random guy who knows my name. It’s the guy I am supposed to meet. He is waiting for me outside because he grossly misrepresented himself.  He used a picture of his cousin because he is insecure about his looks, apologizes, and would completely understand if I didn’t want to go through with the date. Ok, I would’ve been an asshole if I said “you look like a pug dog....more

Virtual Chemistry

    It's kind of amazing how disinterested I'd become in sex.  During the last year of increasingly inactive relationship, and it's devastating conclusion, I'd almost completely lost the urge.  After we broke up, however, sex was practically all I could t...more

Internet Fraud: Online Dating Scams Cost Millions

All over the world, online dating sites are riddled with internet scammers. For example the Australian government has collected reports from 1600 internet fraud victims who reported losing a total of 17 million dollars to online dating scams in 2011....more

I Found Love Online and You Can Too

When deciding to find a date online, safety is first and foremost. There are a lot of whackos out there but on the flip side, there are a lot of good people that are serious about wanting to meet someone. Use your common sense at all times. Most on-line sites won't allow you to post contact information. You must go through their site to contact a person. Don't give out any personal information until you are sure you are ready to talk in person. ...more
@Robinette B I remember thinking how strange it was to think people were meeting over the ...more

Confessions of a Former Dating Loser

I met my husband three years ago on  Many times when I tell people that they get this shocked look on their face as if to say "What were you thinking by dating on-line????"   Well to be honest, it wasn't my idea....more
 @Darcie Thank you so much!  Our families were a little skeptical but once everyone met, my dad ...more


Ladies, are you over 40 and single? Of course you are. There are brazillions of us out there! (Note how I just cunningly lumped myself in with the over-40s, when in fact I am over 50. If I had an editor, I could never get away with that shit!)  ...more
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If you want to date me: Please don't read my blog!

Ignorance is bliss. I'm quite fabulous, actually....more

Six Tips on What NOT to Write on

(originally posted on BetterAfter50 - by A. Chertorofsky)...more

Meeting Great Women...and Other Musings

Every now and then I'll read or hear someone say something along the lines of "women aren't nice to each other", "I don't trust women", "women are always in competition with other women", and, of course "women are bitches".  And we're all familiar with the concept of mean girls ( ...more

It’s Not Online Dating. It’s Social Pairing.

image via SituEating Socialize with your social network? What a concept....more
Hey there, Gigabiting! Great posts with LOTS of social options happening around the sharing of a ...more