The Best Ways to Use a Dental Dam

Dental dams are a tool designed to make oral sex safer and they have increased in popularity in recent years....more
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Oral: Give it another try

I once heard a comedian say something along the lines of "it's not a true bj unless there's mascara running down your face"....I'm not gonna lie...I lost it when I heard this.And I've noticed that when it comes to oral sex you either love it or you hate it. And I can think of one reason why you possibly hate it.... being shoved into it...literally....more

Make Sure Your Blow Jobs Don't Blow

Noggin DOs to Make a Blow Job Fun and not a JOB that BLOWSIf I ever run into a genie, my "world peace" wish would be that all the cum tastes like the cream filling of a twinkie, it doesn’t make you fat, and ingesting it cures cancer....more
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Virginia Is (Not) For (Oral) Lovers (?!)

I woke up and checked my calendar this morning and, just as I remembered, the year is still 2013.  However, after reading that the Attorney General of Virginia wants to ban certain sexual activity, I felt like time went backwards and no one warned me!...more

HPV & Our Sons: Why I'm Vaccinating My Boys

I've always been wary of vaccines. We did choose to vaccinate our children, but at a much slower pace than the suggested multiple-shots-per-doctor's-visit. It's not that I wanted to cause a mumps outbreak in my city; I wanted to slow things down, to have some control over the amount of stuff entering my kids' bodies. I wanted to be able to watch for individual reactions, not wonder which vaccine did what if some adverse reaction did happen post-shot. But let me tell you something: The moment my oldest son turns 11-years-old? He's getting the Gardasil vaccine....more
I actually didn't know that boys could get the vaccine. I have girls and they are being ...more

5 Things Women Are Afraid to Tell Men About Sex

Unfortunately, girls are taught from the cradle to coddle the male ego, not just with flattery but with genuine fear not to speak truths that could cause men to feel uncomfortable or imperfect. And nowhere is this more true than in the sack. Many a woman who feels herself a ballsy broad in her daily life finds herself in bed, afraid to say “Please do this” or “Don’t do that” for fear of confronting a man looking shocked, upset, or disappointed—which can push a button installed in us as little girls labeled Failure As A Woman....more

Book Review - Oral Sex That'll Blow Her Mind: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Her Amazing Orgasms

The big fantasy when it comes to sex education is that once high school is finished, everyone knows everything about sex that they will need to know for the rest of their lives.  Ok, I’ll wait while your laughter dies down.  It’s a ridiculous idea, isn’t it – made even more ridiculous by the fact that many sex education programs today are little more than cautionary tales that rely on preaching abstinence.  It’s no wonder that folks are getting to be adults and are clueless when it comes to sex.  Luckily there are people out there who are ready to answer those questions....more

Oral Sex Causes Oral Cancer—But Don’t Wig Out

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could blame all oral cancers on smoking ciggies and boozing it up? At least we already know we’re better off ditching those vices. But are we supposed to have NO fun? I mean, seriously. For the most part, oral sex is pretty dang safe. You can’t get knocked up. It’s much harder to contract most sexually transmitted diseases. And it feels oh-oh-oh so good. But it seems all good things come at a price. ...more
Having just finished radiation and chemo treatments for HPV 16 cancer on my bottom of my tongue ...more

His Nose Knows

Jake had large features - larger than the average bear anyway. Somehow they all worked together on his face and he was a fairly attractive man. I've often seen young children with features like his and thought to myself, "JESUS CHRIST! That's one ugly kid!" But 9 times out of 10, those kids grow into their features and usually turn out to be quite handsome or beautiful - it just takes time. So, yes, Jake had big ears, a strong cleft chin as well as a large cleft nose. His nose was probably the first thing I noticed about him when we met......more

Shocking News: Second-Graders Having Oral Sex?

It's the sort of headline that makes parents want to grab their kids and lock them up, or at least stuff them into protective bubbles: Allegedly two second graders engaged in oral sex in an Oakland, CA classroom... while the teacher was present. I know that I couldn't figure out which part to be more horrified over first: The fact that kids that young are engaging in blatant sexual behavior, or that it supposedly happened while they were under a teacher's care. ...more
You want to help gather support for Erin Merryn. She is a young woman who was sexually abused as ...more