Are You Faking Your Orgasms?

I am of the belief that faking an orgasm on occasion isn't so wrong for your mate...what do they know?...but it’s a huge injustice for you to do to yourself! God, in his infinite wisdom, gave each of us ladies the mysterious ability to orgasm in more than one way and more than one time.  Why would we deny ourselves that physical and emotional pleasure? In the name of chores, kids, work, stress?  I subscribe to the practice that there is no better way to relax and rejuvenate than to have an orgasm or two several times a week....more

Does Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the House, Orgasm?

When I look at our illustrious Speaker of the House, Nancy Pelosi, I find myself wondering ‘when was the last time she had an orgasm? Or even got laid?’   ...more

Your Orgasm is your Responsibility. It's your job to have one, not someone's job to give you one.

It’s not someone’s job to give you one. I feel so strongly that you need to own your own orgasm, ladies. ...more

Kegel Exercises, Sex Toys and Orgasms

Kegel Exercises, Sex Toys & Orgasms By now, Kegel exercises and the medical benefits they impart are relatively well known, therefore you won’t find detailed descriptions or instructions on how to do what I call ‘pelvic push ups’ here.  What you will discover is the amazing ability of these well-performed ‘push ups’ to produce knee shaking orgasms and how you can make that a reality in your life. ...more

Masturbation: Does your partner know you masturbate?

So, do you do it?  Pet the mouse, comfort the kitten, make with your muffin, play with the little man in the boat, dive for the pearl, pleasure yourself. And if you’re in a relationship with someone else, possibly a fella, do you do it when he’s around, or just by your lone self?   Is this a hey, this is hot come and watch, kind of thing, or is it a “Damn, I’m tired and need to put myself to sleep,” kind of thing? ...more

I'm a female who's been on the accusatory side of the scenario you describe.

Much love, ...more

Sex Toys and the Aphrodite Vibrator Massager on Oprah

Oprah featured Dr. Laura Berman-”Oprah’s favorite sex therapist”-on The Oprah Winfrey show yesterday and the amazing Aphrodite vibrator, as part of Oprah’s Best Life Series. The Aphrodite Vibrator Massager as seen on Oprah’s show is part of Dr. Berman’s Intimate Accessories Line of sex toys designed specifically for women by a real sex therapist.  On the show, Dr. Berman “helps Luanne overcome her orgasmic obstacles with a special tool-the Aphrodite vibrator, nicknamed ‘the sure thing.’  One side of the vibrator, which Dr. Berman designed as part of her Berman Center Intimate Accessories line, warms up. The other side vibrates and is able to hold a number of attachments.  It helped one woman recieve her first orgasm in serveral years!  Read more at Pop My Cherry ...more

Clever Women More Likely To Have Trouble Climaxing

New research suggests that clever women are more likely to experience problems climaxing. A survey, conducted by a German lifestyle website, found that 62% of women who had "completed their education" reported that they often had trouble reaching orgasm. That compared with just 38% of their less qualified colleagues. ...more

"completed their education" and "clever"...particularly in an age range ...more

Ultrasound Spots The G Spot (But Finds For Some It's MIA)

It's like one of those jokes. Do you want the good news or the bad news first? ...more

Just a little Tied Up...

…Just a LITTLE ‘Tied Up’… Ok, I could come up with a myriad of excuses for why it’s been so long since I’ve written, ranging from severe illness to complete hibernation (winters in Michigan will do that to a person)….and those excuses would not be completely untrue. However, I’d rather just say, “I’ve been a little tied up.” That expression always makes me smile. ...more