There Are No Winners in the Pain Olympics

It's a familiar concept in the infertility community and it moves in two directions. On one side is the ongoing one-upmanship -- implying or telling another person that they simply don't have it as bad as you do. Equally damaging is the figurative removal of medals in the Pain Olympics -- holding up your own struggles against another person's struggles and diminishing your own. ...more

...And that everyone has their own unique balance of the good and the bad.

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